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Old 02-26-2015, 08:54 AM
 
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Mine are...
1. Chemistry.....that "click" we have when we are talking or that "magic" we mutually feel when we are with one another. No conversation has to take place, we do not have to be participating in any special activity.....just being together feels wonderful and "right".

2. Trust.... without it, it doesn't matter how "great" the other stuff is. When we are in a relationship where there is lying and deception of any kind it takes away our peace, joy and happiness. I was a cheater once (I have made amends to my ex however still living with the guilt of my actions) and I have been cheated on quite a few times. Therefore it is important for me to be trustworthy in my future relationships as well as expect that from my partner as well.
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Old 02-26-2015, 08:55 AM
 
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1. Kindness.

2. Hot sex.
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:03 AM
 
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Things like chemistry and trust are either there or they aren't. My expectations in a partner have to do with his responsibilities toward the relationship, so mine are communication and fidelity. If he can't manage those two things he has no business being in a relationship.
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:04 AM
 
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Trust

^This^
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:05 AM
 
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I would say

#1 Trust - After all, it'll be a sad relationship if you can't trust the person you're with.

Really it's hard to pick a second, as there's things I think come equally after trust. like communication, understanding, and compatibility, fidelity
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Big package
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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1. Independence - someone who has a life going on and does not need me every day.

2. Attraction - if you don't have anything in you I want, why the hell am I wasting time with you?
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:18 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Big package
Ok for real now.

1.dependable
2.compassion
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:21 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Communication
and I'm not sure
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:23 AM
 
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Communication has to be up there. if a partner cant communicate, there's no way the relationship is lasting longterm
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