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But you did the right thing in telling her you love her. So later on if you meet again she cannot say you let her go without trying.
I told my friends they all said, "Damn, you just put the nail in your own coffin". lol
I gave her too much power with that one, I regret saying it.
I'm walking away knowing i'm still standing on my own two feet.
I've seen some of the craziness people do after break ups, nothing I did was to that extreme. She made me realize my weaknesses, so now i'm going to work on myself.
Yeah, depends on how you look at it, your life experiences, age and maturity etc. I do not know why they said nail in the coffin but that is ok. Humans do not fit a cookie cutter especially when it comes to relationships. Giving away power can also be seen as a magnanimous gesture. You always will have the power you are the man. Women are always the weaker no matter how they act or talk they just cannot be like men.
Besides it is what you think not your friends or me in this. You were there and you know what happened day in, day out.
You never know if the decision you make is a good one until some time has passed and you assess the outcomes of that decision.
I unfollowed her in everything yesterday, no contact started today. Yesterday I sent her a quick message acknowledging the break up and that was it. No more contact.
I was speaking to my uncle today and he gave me some advice.
He said, "Hey, let her be, and give her her space. Go do what you have to do, get your issues resolved, and make a commitment to yourself to change into a better man. Whether you do it for for her or not, it doesn't matter, because at the end of the day you have to make those changes anyway. Go do things you love to do, go to the gym, hang out with friends, go on some dates, learn to be on your own. Once you feel like you've made significant improvements and feel better about yourself, start contacting her and see how it goes".
What do you think?
I totally agree with your uncle. Is this your 1st real breakup? There are lots of women out there.
I totally agree with your uncle. Is this your 1st real breakup? There are lots of women out there.
I say never contact her again period. It would only inflate her ego that you are still hung up on her after all that time. Meanwhile, she has moved on and probably been around the block already.
I say never contact her again period. It would only inflate her ego that you are still hung up on her after all that time. Meanwhile, she has moved on and probably been around the block already.
Hell naw, I wouldn't give her the satisfaction. You're right she's probably out getting banged as we type.
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