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View Poll Results: How did you meet the person you are seeing?
Bar/club 15 15.15%
OLD 30 30.30%
Through friends 17 17.17%
through family 3 3.03%
Work 16 16.16%
Other public area like a grocery store 18 18.18%
Voters: 99. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 07-20-2015, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Hampton Roads
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I posted a craigslist ad seeking friends who like the Decemberists for an upcoming Decemberists show, because my only other way was to go alone or pay a friend's ticket to go. I got an email from a guy saying that he was home for leave from the army and the Decemberists are awesome and he needed a friend to go with as well. ....we went out for pizza first and then went to the Decemberists show later that week and then on another date before he had to return. We got married 5 years later ;-)

yay, Decemberists!
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Old 07-20-2015, 09:19 AM
 
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When someone says cold approaches don't work, what they are really talking about is being cold approached by someone he or she doesn't like.
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Old 07-20-2015, 09:33 AM
 
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We met at work, which was also a bar. So the old "don't date coworkers" and "you can't meet anyone in a bar" just doesn't ring true over here.
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Old 07-20-2015, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Met the man I'm dating on OKC.

Met a lot of men I'd rather not have met on OKC, too...
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:23 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Tinder lol I can't believe it either...
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Old 07-24-2015, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Asia
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She was my teacher in one-on-one Chinese classes. I chased her for 4 years and finally convinced her to marry me. 26 years later, we're still going strong. Its been a long, strange, (and very happy) trip.
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Old 07-24-2015, 09:07 AM
 
Location: In the outlet by the lightswitch
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The one I am dating now I met on Match.com. But before that it was always socially (friend of a friend sort of thing) and well before that it was usually someone I was in class with (at college) or lived in my dorm (we had co-ed dorms).

Cold approach never worked for me, ever. I've met some nice people that way (only one "bad" rejection--everyone else was pleasant as could be about it). Then again, it's because I have a knack for finding the ones that are already taken.
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Old 07-24-2015, 12:40 PM
 
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Based on the poll results, it looks like online dating is in the lead, but I wonder if everyone who selected it knew what "OLD" meant. It would have been better to just spell out "online dating."
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Old 07-24-2015, 12:46 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Online matchmaking site (that's no longer around) back in 1999.

It took him three tries before I responded to his message though. I considered him to be too short (at 5'10" - 6') and there wasn't a lot on his profile, so he got the "delete" button. I can't recall what he wrote in his third message, but I know it made me laugh and he also stated it was his final attempt. It worked.
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Old 07-24-2015, 12:52 PM
 
Location: Chicago. Kind of.
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The old fashioned way. At a bar.
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