why did i react so badly to my break up? (girl, love)

[mattlawson]

if you get dumped and you love them do you let them go or fight for them?

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by mattlawson

ive been dumped before and have no problem getting over it. i never acted needy or desperate.

but my last ex i was deeply in love with. i saw myself with her for along time, possibly marriage

its hard to explain but she just made me happy, i was in love

she dumped me though. she said i could be childish at times and could be a little annoying

i was hurt and upset and begged and pleaded for her back for like 2 months. i tried and tried and just came off as desperate and needy.

now looking back i cringe. i cant believe i acted like that.

i just pushed her away more

but i cant figure out why i acted like that. why didnt i just move on like i always had before? was it from being in love with her which i hadnt been before?


it just makes me sick thinking of how i acted


but why did i react so badly?

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why did i react badly to this break up

[TenorSax83]

Let it go op. They're gone...

[MissmamaAnnie]

let it go.chasing them will just push them away.Give them space and if its meant to be then they will come back

[alaskandaisy]

Aw I think she was just a girl you really, really loved. Don't feel bad about trying to mend it and being clingy.

I do this behavior too. It's an honest reaction to your emotions. You're still in a cloud of hurt and you want to fix it so you become desperate. Then you heal a little and begin to think with your brain and you're like "why did I do that?"

I think you've never done it before because you've never felt enough pain from a loss. The only thing you can try and do is wait it out at least a week after a breakup before contact to let the smoke clear a little. I need to work on this too.