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So I'm talking to this guy(texting) and he starts asking me questions about sex(if I had sex before, what I do if I live w/ a roomate). I haven't answered yet. What should I tell him? That I don't feel comfortable talking about this with someone I just met? Is this normal? Is this guy just in it for the sex? We haven't even gone on a date yet.
Have to agree. If you're looking for a relationship, then you may need to move on. Wanting sex is natural and good. But him talking about this kind of personal stuff before even one date seems to imply is the main thing on his mind. If you're someone who wants a relationship or at least a few dates before sex, then this guy may be too fast for you.
You could tell him it's private and you don't discuss your personal sex life with guys you haven't been going out with for a while, then wait and see how he responds, if he does lol
Last edited by HappyRain; 03-10-2015 at 02:07 AM..
This. This guy is a low-life. He doesn't have the common sense, or the will, or the self-control (pick one) to know better than to come on sexually from the start. (Any moron knows at least that much, so if he's sleazy right out of the gate, it means he's a perv.) He's potentially bad news. If you explain anything, "I'm not comfortable with...", he'll use it against you. He'll try to manipulate you. This isn't a red flag, this is an emergency air raid siren! Block him, and don't look back.
Last edited by NewbiePoster; 03-10-2015 at 01:08 AM..
Some women I've waited quite a while, some women it came up quite early.
(including my last ex whom I dated for nearly 3 years) depends on the person/circumstances.
If he brings it up again AFTER you make it clear your not comfortable... THEN I'd agree with some of the others.
Otherwise, if it's just a 1x thing.... Meh.
Don't read too much into it.
I'm not sure if I understand what you wrote. Did you say he wants to know if you live alone ? Because that's information a rapist or a date rapist would want.
Personally, I'd bring up the topic of sex very early. Call me a creep, because I'd hate to invest time on a woman that believes in not having sex until marriage (cause that ain't happening)
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