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No you wanted everyone to tell you that if you're pregnant that you should have the kid and that he should man up and be with you. If not, than everything will be ok because single mommys are ammmaaaazzzzing. When you got questioned and not what you wanted to hear, you threw a hissy fit.
Not at all. I wanted relationship advice. Ive said it over and over, i dont care if he does not want to be with me.
Same guy and we already had unprotected sex by the time of that thread. It wasnt on purpose, i told him i wasnt on birth control but he said he'd pull out each time ...But he didnt.
Is ANY of this my business? Is it my business to know if you are pregnant or not? Is it my business to know how your FWB that you want something more with will react to this? Is it my business to know that you use the pull out method instead of effective forms of birth control? NO! But you have put your business out here for all of us and you can't control what we say or what we think. I'm a mother. Being a mother is HARD. It's HARD and EXPENSIVE. I'm not telling you to get an abortion. I'm not telling you to put up your child for adoption. But I'm suggesting that you think about this realistically. If you are in college - HOW are you going to raise a child on your own? How are you going to pay rent? How are you going to pay for clothes, bottles, car seats, a crib, a stroller, toys, books, blankets, burp cloths, doctor's appointments, the delivery, etc.? Who is going to watch the baby while you go to college or work? These are things that you are going to have to figure out.
Im aware about the pull out method but the fact is he never did pull out.
I wouldn't want to be in any type of relationship with a liar who tells me that he will pull out, but never does....
I wouldn't even be trying to get advice about my relationship with him, I would have already kicked him to the curb.
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