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Old 03-12-2015, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Miami, Floroda
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No you wanted everyone to tell you that if you're pregnant that you should have the kid and that he should man up and be with you. If not, than everything will be ok because single mommys are ammmaaaazzzzing. When you got questioned and not what you wanted to hear, you threw a hissy fit.

Not at all. I wanted relationship advice. Ive said it over and over, i dont care if he does not want to be with me.

 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:53 PM
 
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Not at all. I wanted relationship advice. Ive said it over and over, i dont care if he does not want to be with me.
What relationship advice can we give to someone who doesn't care? You're starting to sound odd.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:53 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Same guy and we already had unprotected sex by the time of that thread. It wasnt on purpose, i told him i wasnt on birth control but he said he'd pull out each time ...But he didnt.




Then he asked for it.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Miami, Floroda
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From this and the other thread, she wants to hear how she can make fwb be with her.
I really dont care if he wants to be with me or not. If he does okay if not then i'm fine with that too. But #1 thing is the child. Not me.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:54 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Ummmm no. You ever think i might have a trust fund because my dad is deceased and left me money?

I have never got 1 red cent from the government.
If you have a trust fund, why is it a problem to pay for birth control? Are you hoping to become pregnant?
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:56 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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That's not how i'm going to decide to parent or not. I'm going to parent. Discussion is closed about the abortion talk.
The question does not have anything to do with abortion. Think it through. Parenting is hard work and requires a great deal of time and money.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Is it really any of your business?
Is ANY of this my business? Is it my business to know if you are pregnant or not? Is it my business to know how your FWB that you want something more with will react to this? Is it my business to know that you use the pull out method instead of effective forms of birth control? NO! But you have put your business out here for all of us and you can't control what we say or what we think. I'm a mother. Being a mother is HARD. It's HARD and EXPENSIVE. I'm not telling you to get an abortion. I'm not telling you to put up your child for adoption. But I'm suggesting that you think about this realistically. If you are in college - HOW are you going to raise a child on your own? How are you going to pay rent? How are you going to pay for clothes, bottles, car seats, a crib, a stroller, toys, books, blankets, burp cloths, doctor's appointments, the delivery, etc.? Who is going to watch the baby while you go to college or work? These are things that you are going to have to figure out.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:57 PM
 
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Not at all. I wanted relationship advice. Ive said it over and over, i dont care if he does not want to be with me.
You have no realtionship.

Get a pregnancy test.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Miami, Floroda
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If you have a trust fund, why is it a problem to pay for birth control? Are you hoping to become pregnant?

Because my mother controls the distrubution of it and i'd rather not tell her until i know for sure im pregnant
 
Old 03-12-2015, 07:59 PM
 
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Im aware about the pull out method but the fact is he never did pull out.
I wouldn't want to be in any type of relationship with a liar who tells me that he will pull out, but never does....

I wouldn't even be trying to get advice about my relationship with him, I would have already kicked him to the curb.
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