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Old 03-12-2015, 08:21 PM
 
Location: USA
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Typical. Women have no responsibility for their choices.
Careful, your MRA/PUA/Red Pill/MGTOW colors are showing.

What a shock. An MRA/PUA/Red Pill guy wanting to blame the woman for everything, even when he also makes his choices and takes his chances.

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Old 03-12-2015, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Miami, Floroda
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth View Post
So, it's hard to say. It could still be the Plan B, I suppose. I don't think women typically experience spotting right after getting pregnant. Keep your fingers crossed.

Have you asked the guy what he thought he was doing, not pulling out? Does he want a kid? Or does he not like you, and this was his way of passive-aggressively ruining your life? Or is he just reckless and stupid?

I've heard some women experience implantation bleeding ...and that plan B doesnt work if your already ovulating.

He just said "he got caught up in the moment" i dont know though if he wants a kid, he claims he'd step up to the plate
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:22 PM
 
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The point is that the man has little choice to bring in the child, but she does. If she knowingly brings a child in with an unwanting father, that is HER choice. I'm sorry but "my body my choice" can hook a man for 18 years with no say. It's no wonder many men want nothing to do with it.
If he doesn't want to father a child, he shouldn't be knowingly having unprotected sex, promising to pull out, and then ejaculating inside. Right?
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:22 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Lol. If he had pulled out, you'd still be blaming him for *choosing* to have sex with her. With people like you, women are never responsible for their choices.
What you're really saying here is that you'll scrape the bottom of the barrel for excuses as to why the guy isn't responsible, even when he clearly is.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:24 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I've heard some women experience implantation bleeding ...and that plan B doesnt work if your already ovulating.

He just said "he got caught up in the moment" i dont know though if he wants a kid, he claims he'd step up to the plate
What?! It doesn't work if you're ovulating?? So it only works, when? Before or after ovulation? WTH??!
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Miami, Floroda
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I said it was their mistake and there are further consequences for the child for her choice.

Whine about whatever you think I am. She is making a stupid and selfish choice
Stupid and selfish when i will not take the easy way out? Yeah right.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Miami, Floroda
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What?! It doesn't work if you're ovulating?? So it only works, when? Before or after ovulation? WTH??!
That's what i keep reading everywhere that it works only if you havent ovulated yet.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:25 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Whine about whatever you think I am. She is making a stupid and selfish choice
So did her FWB.


OP, that's bunk that he "got caught up in the moment". That's passive-aggressive. He wanted you to get pregnant.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:27 PM
 
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If that's what really happened. She easily could have been on top and not hopped off. She also chose to take plan B late. This is their mistake, and more so hers due to the irresponsible plan B.
Nope. As I have ingrained into my son's brain with constant repetition: a man has two choices. He chooses whether or not to have sex, and he chooses whether or not to use a condom. That's it. Everything else is beyond his control. So if you don't want to father a baby, then you don't leave it up to someone else. You take responsibility for you.
 
Old 03-12-2015, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Miami, Floroda
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How is she not responsible if she took plan b late? How is it only his? It's not. Allow women to take some responsibility and stop treating them like children.
What about when he said he was going to pull out but didnt then made me pay for the plan B 100% ?
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