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Old 03-14-2015, 07:52 PM
 
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So, the last time I talked to my "ex" was on Monday. I sent him messages and he never replied, it was a huge fight/mess. It was his decision to end our relationship. He texted me today asking me how I was/how I was doing. I was finally starting to feel better and moving on and now he contacts me? Why? Why is he doing this.

P.s - feel free to read my previous threads about him for the backstory
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:02 PM
 
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Sweetheart, past posts are not important. If he broke up with you, do not EVER respond to any text he sends (any contact) he just wants to see if he still has you hooked and if not, he's hoping to keep you hooked by texting and PRETENDING to care. Let it go. If you choose not to, come back and read this over and over until you finally ignore him. You will regret responding.
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:11 PM
 
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He wants to continue controlling you.
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Ignore*
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Ft. Myers
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Ok, the women on here have given you their opinion, I will give you mine. They are right.

He wants his cake and eat it too.

Don
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:19 PM
 
Location: My House
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So, the last time I talked to my "ex" was on Monday. I sent him messages and he never replied, it was a huge fight/mess. It was his decision to end our relationship. He texted me today asking me how I was/how I was doing. I was finally starting to feel better and moving on and now he contacts me? Why? Why is he doing this.

P.s - feel free to read my previous threads about him for the backstory
Block his number. He's doing this because you let him and because he is insensitive to your feelings. Don't be stupid.
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Canada
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So, the last time I talked to my "ex" was on Monday. I sent him messages and he never replied, it was a huge fight/mess. It was his decision to end our relationship. He texted me today asking me how I was/how I was doing. I was finally starting to feel better and moving on and now he contacts me? Why? Why is he doing this.

P.s - feel free to read my previous threads about him for the backstory
As a Women....I say take the high road..just text back simply..FINE TYFA...and then say..No further contact is desired..and say Good Bye..Fair well ..and block further ability to access....Keep and document final contact..then delete delete delete.....

Just hoping you don't read anything into whatevers..Once it's over..it's OVER...Move on and Best of Luck!!
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:39 PM
 
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Block the number. That is the easiest way to knock off the bs.

When I was going through my divorce I was on the road and had a pheasant hit the middle of the windshield. Like an idiot I posted a picture of the damage. The ex almost immediately started texting me wondering if I was okay and where I was. I didn't answer for quite a while.

My first reaction was "it is none of your business." She wouldn't let it rest I sent a "my well being is none of your concern anymore."
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Old 03-14-2015, 08:41 PM
 
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He wants to continue controlling you.
THIS. He's a control freak..
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Old 03-15-2015, 07:50 PM
 
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You should delete everything related to him. Email, phone numbers etc.

This way you will not text in a moment of weakness.
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