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Sex is a different experience for men than it is for women. The real truth is that the majority of women have issues reaching u know what, not sure how to make this pg-13, and a little bit of research may go a long way. I think you should tell, or stop having sex. There is no reason for you to continue engaging in bad sex. It's ok that you don't love it and fell the need to speak up. Can you talk with another girl your age and see if she has any tips?
Definitely tell him he's bad but in a positive way, practice makes perfect but teach him what you like and what you don't like. I started out horrible, but got better along the way, it's like working out, you may not know what you are doing at first but learn what to do right and do it with proper form and no one will be complaining. My wife achieves the Big O in a variety of positions each and every time. Just this last time she hit 3 Big O's back to back to back. First time for us.
IMO its like eating out (no pun intended) there are some places I am not very fond of eating (no pun intended) that doesn't mean we never go to those restaurants. It means sometimes we eat at my favorite places and sometimes we eat at my SO favorite place to eat. With sex sometimes he has to do what you want and sometimes he gets to do what he wants without feeling like he's coming up short ( no pun intended) but first he has to care about how you feel and that it is important for you to have things go your way sometimes. He may come around in the long run (no pun intended) I still don't like eating at oyster bars.....( no pun intended)
Instead of telling him you don't like the way he has sex, tell him lets do it a different way and lead him through steps, but by all means tell him something. Tell him you don't mind those roadside hot-dog stands where they give you a cold hot-dog in a dry bun with one squirt of mustard especially when you are tired or in a hurry, but when you both have time its nice to eat something that takes longer to prepare.
Last edited by thriftylefty; 06-09-2015 at 03:00 PM..
Not only does he sound terrible, it also seems like he's selfish and doesn't care about your pleasure. Don't waste your time on someone who won't please you sexually. Trust me, there's many guys out there that would love to please you.
He told you it's your responsibility if you get anything out of it? Run, girl, run! It sounds like he's extremely insecure and has no clue what he's doing, or he has some physical problems, or he's the kind who likes to be dominated and would rather have someone more experienced do stuff to him. Either way, his interests/wishes don't match yours and you should get out of this relationship and just find someone who's more on the same page with you.
You may like him for other things, but a BF is there to meet needs that can't be met by just a random person. companionship and good socialization can be obtained from other people, aka friends. Bedroom stuff- not much. So don't lose your time.
You should definately talk with him. But do it in a good way. Tell him how you want it when you sleep with him the next time.
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