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Old 03-17-2015, 07:18 AM
 
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Okay, that makes sense, but dinner date?? I still think it's a date-date, like you said.

I think so too. The issue is that it really shouldn't be something the OP should be obsessed upon, and it really isn't his business.
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Old 03-17-2015, 07:54 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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itd be great if people just answered the quetsion
Why does it matter? She has a date for dinner, not for a night at a motel. If you wanted to see her, you should have asked if she was free another day.
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Old 03-17-2015, 08:02 AM
 
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so this girl i'm really into was talking to me. i asked what she'd doing tomorrow night and she said she has a "dinner date"

ok what does that mean? is it a date with a guy or could it be shes meeting a friend for dinner

like they made plans a few weeks ago and its just called a dinner date?
It means she has a dinner date. It could be with a man or a woman, and it could be romantic or platonic. If you want to know more, ask her, not strangers on the internet. We don't know her.

Ultimately, who cares, anyway? If you're interested in her, ask her out, regardless of who her date is with (unless it's with a spouse or otherwise committed SO, obviously).
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Old 03-17-2015, 08:05 AM
 
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itd be great if people just answered the quetsion
People are answering the question. You just don't like the answer.
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Old 03-17-2015, 08:12 AM
 
Location: Terra
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It's likely a guy. If it was a girl, she would have mentioned it was a girl.
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Old 03-17-2015, 08:18 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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It means she's unavailable to you tomorrow night. So you should have asked about an alternate date.
If she were really interested she would have proposed an alternative date.
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Old 03-17-2015, 08:20 AM
 
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If she were really interested she would have proposed an alternative date.

Oh no as he never did ask her to get together. He just asked what she was doing. That's not at all the same.
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:32 AM
 
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if it is an actual date why not just say "date" instead of "dinner date"
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:36 AM
 
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if it is an actual date why not just say "date" instead of "dinner date"
Why do you care what it's called? She has a date with someone and it's during the late meal of the day. The only reason you're obsessing is because she's going out with someone and it's not you. Either ask her out for another time or get over being "really into her" and move along.
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:37 AM
 
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if it is an actual date why not just say "date" instead of "dinner date"
Because they're going to dinner.

Why are you thinking so hard on this?!?
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