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Old 03-17-2015, 09:58 AM
 
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Well, yes, but it bothers me a little that this guy probably told his friends he slept with my friend to brag. He used her because she is attractive and nice. He probably told them he slept with her after the birthday, but in reality he never called.

My friend was with him until 7 am in this birthday and the guy only intention was using her
You don't know any of this, and who cares if he did? Did she actually sleep with him? Is this somehow going to interfere with her life? Is she some sort of celebrity or political figure who is afraid of the local tabloids learning about this encounter?

None of this stuff matters.
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:01 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I mean, is taking a first date to an intimate birthday a common practice in the us? Doesnt anyone see anything weird with that?
If it was my birthday and my best friend wanted to bring a "total catch," I'd be totally fine with it.
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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And she did text him the next day to tell her she had a great time and that his friends were nice. He didnt even answered! How much of a scumbag do u have to be to not even answer a message?


Im just tired of hearing stories about stand up, beautiful, smart women being ditched by idiots or scumbags
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:03 AM
 
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They slept together?? What.
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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No, they didnt. She went home after the birthday
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:04 AM
 
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Im just tired of hearing stories about stand up, beautiful, smart women being ditched by idiots or scumbags

He's an idiot now? And a scumbag?

And how did he ditch her?

None of this is making ANY sense.
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:05 AM
 
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And she did text him the next day to tell her she had a great time and that his friends were nice. He didnt even answered! How much of a scumbag do u have to be to not even answer a message?


Im just tired of hearing stories about stand up, beautiful, smart women being ditched by idiots or scumbags

She didn't even like him!!!! Why does it matter????
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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Doesnt it happen? In the stories i hear, in 90 percent of the cases, is the woman who is so beautiful and succesful, and the guy is a loser, and they eneded up cheating or not calling or whatever. The woman usually is way out of his league and has low self esteem. And the guys are usually losers , and they ditch them anyway.

Its shocking how many succesful woman end up with this kind of guy.

It almost seems like is better to be not so pretty or succesful (like me, lol) to attract the good ones
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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He's an idiot now? And a scumbag?

And how did he ditch her?

None of this is making ANY sense.

He didnt even answered her kind message. Common courtesy.

I agree a loser ditching a wonderful woman doesnt make sense
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:11 AM
 
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You make absolutely no sense. This guy was a loser. Your friend didn't like him. You still haven't explained why it matters.

It sounds like she expected him to like her even though she didn't like him, and now she's annoyed that he didn't.
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