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Agree with above comments. Probably best not to date while actively in therapy. That being said, I did date a therapist at one time. He told me randomly he could no longer be my therapist then asked me out. I know it seems creepy but we actually had a good relationship for a time.
OMG, life is hard enough. You are attracted to him, and he is attracted to you (He didn't give you his number because he wanted to help you with your 'stuff', he gave it to you because he is attracted to you) What if you are great together and you pass it up for an artificial reason?
Call him up, have coffee, get acquainted outside of the construct of therapy. It's a couple hours out of your life, and see where it goes from there. You aren't making a lifetime commitment here...