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View Poll Results: Would u marry an ex prostitution
no that s stupid 32 74.42%
I might 4 9.30%
if I like her for sure! 7 16.28%
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Old 02-10-2010, 08:11 AM
 
Location: Arizona, The American Southwest
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There are women who have been in many flings, one night stands, relationships, etc. that makes them no different than a 'prostitute' anyway. At least a prostitute got paid for it.
I wouldn't marry a woman like that either.

 
Old 02-10-2010, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Sydney
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I find the reasons men have made rejecting ex pro's on this post to be selfish and narrow minded.

Most if not all the reasons for rejecting a former prostitute are soley based on their own insecurities. I have noticed these men have not made a judgement based on the women's personality but her sex life? Men need to stop judging women on their sex life. Maybe if you look beyond sex you will find that women, even those who are former prostitues do have traits that are gf/wife material. You just choose not to see it.

Its a wonder why women, even regular women need to lie about their sexual past. Maybe if men were not so judgemental then women will be able to be honest about it. Men say that they want the truth but when they get it they rant off about how skanky they are. All comes down to jelousy i think, cause they compare it perhaps to their sex life and if the women has had a more active sex life compared to them and can't handle the fact that they are admired more than themselves. All comes down to your own inseurities.

If a women has chosen to sell her body to get by and is long past it, it shows how commited she is to being a breadwinner. It shows she has the inner strength to put her emotions aside and concentrate on important issues in life, like her bills or her education (many prostitues do go to school or have other part time jobs but it is part of their job not to disclose it).

Another benefit is that an ex pro will know the go when it comes to men. They are life experienced. This is a great treat that many regular girls do not have.

I think If an ex pro would meet a man who loved her and accepted her for her she would more than willing to be loyal to her partner as she has been around before and knows the value of true relationships. Why? because she has lacked true relationships in her life and would naturally appreiate a man who loves her. I assume that having sex with a "client" and someone you care about would be different in the sense where, with the client its straight forward honest negotiation - You give me sex, I'll give you money, Good Bye. They are not lieing to get the money, like gold diggers or women who are dependant and only want to be with a man so they he can provider her with her basic living needs (a roof over her head or food on the table.) Yes, many women get into relationships just so they have somewhere to live. I know so many girls who do this without admitting it.

What is the difference between a women who has had sex with men for money or has sex for nothing? I know plenty of women who are promiscious for the thrill of it. Although they are considered skanks, they are more accepted because they didnt ask for money? No, these types of women compared to pro's are plain stupid for choosing to be sluts with no profitable return. Men go to brothels and seek prostitues to get sex and some of the same guys approach regular promisious girls and also expect sex... these men do not want relationships out of either type of women but these same men expect a women to treat THEM like they are something more than sex? Men want to be treated like kings but they want to treat women like they are only sex. Lol, hyporitical isnt it?

We live in an era where sex is open and yes men, women choose to participate in it for fun or money. Get over it! Men do it to.

Boo Hoo, a prostitute may have had sex with ugly men. That's shallow to judge a person because of this. It's also immature. I don't see how a women can be a bad person for having sex with an ugly man, regardless if it was for money or not. Again, back to your own insecurities!

I think its ridicilous that men judge former pro's so heavily. They are out of it now and they should be given credit that they are, as it is the type of industry is easy to get in to but hard to get out of.

I admire any women who has been able to get out of it and move on. It shows true strength.
 
Old 02-10-2010, 08:40 PM
 
Location: somewhere close to Tampa, but closer to the beach
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Nope, just can't do it..would never feel completely safe..
 
Old 02-10-2010, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Atlanta, GA
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C'mon people, have you ever watched Pretty Woman???
Yup, one of my all time favorite's. WATCHED is the key word here. Romantic in a movie, disgusting in real life. I would never even date one.
 
Old 02-10-2010, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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Prostitutes are also human beings. Prostitution is condemned by the self-righteous' as if the prostitutes are scum. Any kind of non-business relationship may be very interesting, that depends on the person.
 
Old 02-10-2010, 09:55 PM
 
Location: 20 years from now
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hell no
 
Old 02-10-2010, 11:40 PM
 
Location: Orlando, Florida
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and give reasons
Not an ex street prosty. No chance in hell

If she was an ex high class escort...maybe...she'd definitely be a lot better looking a far less chance of an std, and much more of a personality, a lot less used since high class escorts are very selective of who they see

marrying a high class escort would essentially be like marrying a woman who never worked in the sex industry, nice personality, not extremely heavily used (could be wrong)

the only downside other then still being emotionless in bed would be that a high class escort may be a gold digger

so i probably wouldnt unless she was high class, and even then i'd have some serious second thoughts
 
Old 02-11-2010, 03:27 AM
 
Location: NH
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Originally Posted by Brenda_1988 View Post
I find the reasons men have made rejecting ex pro's on this post to be selfish and narrow minded.

Most if not all the reasons for rejecting a former prostitute are soley based on their own insecurities. I have noticed these men have not made a judgement based on the women's personality but her sex life? Men need to stop judging women on their sex life. Maybe if you look beyond sex you will find that women, even those who are former prostitues do have traits that are gf/wife material. You just choose not to see it.

Its a wonder why women, even regular women need to lie about their sexual past. Maybe if men were not so judgemental then women will be able to be honest about it. Men say that they want the truth but when they get it they rant off about how skanky they are. All comes down to jelousy i think, cause they compare it perhaps to their sex life and if the women has had a more active sex life compared to them and can't handle the fact that they are admired more than themselves. All comes down to your own inseurities.

If a women has chosen to sell her body to get by and is long past it, it shows how commited she is to being a breadwinner. It shows she has the inner strength to put her emotions aside and concentrate on important issues in life, like her bills or her education (many prostitues do go to school or have other part time jobs but it is part of their job not to disclose it).

Another benefit is that an ex pro will know the go when it comes to men. They are life experienced. This is a great treat that many regular girls do not have.

I think If an ex pro would meet a man who loved her and accepted her for her she would more than willing to be loyal to her partner as she has been around before and knows the value of true relationships. Why? because she has lacked true relationships in her life and would naturally appreiate a man who loves her. I assume that having sex with a "client" and someone you care about would be different in the sense where, with the client its straight forward honest negotiation - You give me sex, I'll give you money, Good Bye. They are not lieing to get the money, like gold diggers or women who are dependant and only want to be with a man so they he can provider her with her basic living needs (a roof over her head or food on the table.) Yes, many women get into relationships just so they have somewhere to live. I know so many girls who do this without admitting it.

What is the difference between a women who has had sex with men for money or has sex for nothing? I know plenty of women who are promiscious for the thrill of it. Although they are considered skanks, they are more accepted because they didnt ask for money? No, these types of women compared to pro's are plain stupid for choosing to be sluts with no profitable return. Men go to brothels and seek prostitues to get sex and some of the same guys approach regular promisious girls and also expect sex... these men do not want relationships out of either type of women but these same men expect a women to treat THEM like they are something more than sex? Men want to be treated like kings but they want to treat women like they are only sex. Lol, hyporitical isnt it?

We live in an era where sex is open and yes men, women choose to participate in it for fun or money. Get over it! Men do it to.

Boo Hoo, a prostitute may have had sex with ugly men. That's shallow to judge a person because of this. It's also immature. I don't see how a women can be a bad person for having sex with an ugly man, regardless if it was for money or not. Again, back to your own insecurities!

I think its ridicilous that men judge former pro's so heavily. They are out of it now and they should be given credit that they are, as it is the type of industry is easy to get in to but hard to get out of.

I admire any women who has been able to get out of it and move on. It shows true strength.
Wow you are crazy! God bless whatever man/men you have or had in your life.

What you are forgetting, or don't have the background or life exp to know, is that most prostitues are not "all there" psychologically. Many are to say the least, psychopaths. Look up Histrionic personality disorder, Borderline, Narcisstic. The vast majority of prostitues are at least mildly hysterical and many are Borderline, narcissistic, etc. I have known a few in my younger days.

Plus, having dated one in my past (and finding out slowly what it all really was), I can tell you that it is a very very scary disorder to be on the other end of. (Histrionic) 3 dates, I had my fun, and ran away faster than a speeding bullet. Look up those definitions of those 3 disorders and you basically have your run-of-the-mill prostitute; "high class" or street *****.

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Old 02-11-2010, 04:12 AM
 
Location: The High Seas
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No. Skills become obsolete. You want a prostitute with an active membership; one who's been attending seminars and getting those continuing education units and keeping up on their game.
 
Old 02-11-2010, 04:14 AM
 
Location: Sydney
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Originally Posted by BriInNH View Post
Wow you are crazy! God bless whatever man/men you have or had in your life.

What you are forgetting, or don't have the background or life exp to know, is that most prostitues are not "all there" psychologically. Many are to say the least, psychopaths. Look up Histrionic personality disorder, Borderline, Narcisstic. The vast majority of prostitues are at least mildly hysterical and many are Borderline, narcissistic, etc. I have known a few in my younger days.

Plus, having dated one in my past (and finding out slowly what it all really was), I can tell you that it is a very very scary disorder to be on the other end of. (Histrionic) 3 dates, I had my fun, and ran away faster than a speeding bullet. Look up those definitions of those 3 disorders and you basically have your run-of-the-mill prostitute; "high class" or street *****.
I don't dis regard what you say, and im sure there are many women that are or previously worked in the sex industry suffers from this dis order, but there is clear evidence to suggest that some women do move on from prostitution to live normal lives without any form of disorders or issues. Or if any, it doesn't affect their relationships.

Even if a women were to suffer from this disorder(s) you speak of, why should you or anybody else judge or discriminate her because of it? It is e moral to discriminate people who have disabilities. The least they deserve is unbias chance to proof they are worthy, most men will not provide that oppurtunity, not that i am saying men should against their will, i am saying that these men should put their money where their mouth is and not make comments about a women they choose not associate themselves with. If your not giving her that oppurtunity to show she is worthy then who are you to judge a person you know so little about? Prostitution isnt a personality trait, it is a proffession and a devistating experience and those women should'nt be subject to critism.

The proffession is the longest proffesion that exists in man kind to date, and it isnt ever going to go away. It definitly needs to be regulated, but that is a political issue. Unfortinitly, if people and the government continue to critisise those women who are in the sex industry and they dont provide atleast some form of access to counselling those women can atleast try to get some physcological help.

I think the business owners of such sex establishements should provide the counselling service to working girls for Occupational Health and Safety reasons. Its discriminative that people that work in an office environement get that benefit (here in Australia) but women subjeted to the sex environment isnt? It seems logical to me to regulate the industry to protect the women more in sex related occupations.

On top of all this i mentioned those women have men like many of there posters putting them down in such a derogatory way. Can you really blame them for having personal issues? Yes they chose to subject themselves to it, many under sad circumstances, but people put so much more emphasis on their flaws than their good qualities and i think its wrong for men to judge prostitution on a hypothetial perspective because they have no right to put down something they have no comprehension of.
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