Confused, what is she waiting for?

[snugglegirl05]

Originally Posted by rebellious1

Is there not any psychics on this board?

Nope...

Not a mind reader

[Frayzer]

Originally Posted by rebellious1

I invited a co-worker to an event in May. She keeps saying she is going but hasn't signed up for it. The event is almost full so I'm wondering what the hell she is waiting for?

I like this girl but I'm not looking at this as a date. It's something she's done before and enjoys doing. I didn't offer to pay her way. I figured if I did that then she would see it as just that, a date. I'm trying to become friends with her and get to know her. The event is $70.

Is she waiting for me to pay her way or is she just waiting until it's full so she has an excuse not to go? The reason why I think she is sincere is because she brought up carpooling and even invited me to a similar event later this year.

I'm afraid that if I offered to pay her way it would be awkward and it would push her away.

If you're gonna ask someone out, do it properly. Not with some "event." And don't do the "friends first route."

She's not going because she does not want to because of "x" or "x" reason. If you consider it as a rejection, then yes it's a rejection.

[ellie]

Originally Posted by rebellious1

I invited a co-worker to an event in May. She keeps saying she is going but hasn't signed up for it. The event is almost full so I'm wondering what the hell she is waiting for?

I like this girl but I'm not looking at this as a date. It's something she's done before and enjoys doing. I didn't offer to pay her way. I figured if I did that then she would see it as just that, a date. I'm trying to become friends with her and get to know her. The event is $70.

Is she waiting for me to pay her way or is she just waiting until it's full so she has an excuse not to go? The reason why I think she is sincere is because she brought up carpooling and even invited me to a similar event later this year.

I'm afraid that if I offered to pay her way it would be awkward and it would push her away.

Ask her if she wants you to go ahead and get the ticket for her since it's about to sell out.

[dragon_fly_12]

Is it an overnight event? Maybe she's trying to find someone to watch her cat.

Or, maybe another friend has already invited her to another event that same day and she has decided which she wants to commit to.

Or, maybe she hasn't felt like spending the money yet.

Or, maybe she's just pacifying you with no intention of going because she's really not interested in the event.

Or, maybe she's out of checks and doesn't carry cash on her.

Or, maybe she just hasn't gotten around to it yet.