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Old 03-21-2015, 10:31 AM
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What are things women do that tell you they are hitting on you?
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Old 03-21-2015, 10:37 AM
 
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I'm not sure... a few women have eventually come out and said it but I never caught the preceding signals. Apparently I am either dense or an Aspie, and possibly both.
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Old 03-21-2015, 10:40 AM
 
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I don't know. I usually can't tell. Sometimes, I suspect that it may be happening, but I never really know.
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Old 03-21-2015, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Short of getting a number, I really cant tell for sure. Most women arent as pronounced as men when it comes to 'hitting'. Some women will say "I gave him all the clear signals"; i.e. smiling, staring, and or, engaging in a conversation; those to me arent clear signals- shoot me a number and I'll know you're serious.
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Old 03-21-2015, 12:44 PM
 
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What are things women do that tell you they are hitting on you?
Well, here's a few...

1) Eye contact. She will be glancing at you more than once. If you both make eye contact and then she never seems to look in your direction again than she's not interested.

2) She will fix her hair. Most often a toss back of her hair.

3) lip gloss. Some will go as far as putting on lip gloss or lip stick to get your attention.

4) She will make herself available. Sitting closer to you. Walk by you, etc.
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Old 03-21-2015, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Columbia, MD
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For some reason women can pick up all the cues, but guys seem to struggle.
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Old 03-21-2015, 01:57 PM
 
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Well, here's a few...

1) Eye contact. She will be glancing at you more than once. If you both make eye contact and then she never seems to look in your direction again than she's not interested.

2) She will fix her hair. Most often a toss back of her hair.

3) lip gloss. Some will go as far as putting on lip gloss or lip stick to get your attention.

4) She will make herself available. Sitting closer to you. Walk by you, etc.
I've definitely had women do none of these things (and, even in some cases, the exact opposite) and it turns out that they were into me.

What I've learned is that if you're into her, just for it, even if you have no indicators of interest.
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:00 PM
 
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I'm lucky if a woman even looks at me.
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Columbia, MD
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2) She will fix her hair. Most often a toss back of her hair
Don't laugh, but this is probably one of the better cues to take, especially when engaged in one to one conversation.

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1) Eye contact. She will be glancing at you more than once. If you both make eye contact and then she never seems to look in your direction again than she's not interested.
Take eye contact with a fine grain of salt. It's not always comfortable for a person to return a gauze or quick glance to a complete stranger, especially ones that they may find attractive.

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I'm lucky if a woman even looks at me.
Maybe your so good-looking you intimidate them!
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Old 03-21-2015, 04:28 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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1. She twirls her hair.
2. She won't stop smiling when she's staring at me.
3. She kisses me.
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