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Old 03-22-2015, 07:42 AM
 
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Originally Posted by inforit84 View Post
It was my only option to be back in her life.

There are always other options.
You appear to like the dramatics of the entire situation.
If she really wanted to be with you she would not be with someone else.
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:42 AM
 
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She does her dirt in the bathroom? Uh that's not dirt......
She texts guys in there takes pics well that was how it was. She is right now on the chair not bothering with me talking to friends . its getting to be a joke but I want her so bad.

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Old 03-22-2015, 07:45 AM
 
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Don't fight for love. if it is there no need to. if it isn't all the fighting won't make it so
I hear from her she hopes/wants it to work. It might end bad again . we broke up I move out come back had the open relationship thrown at me. Said no got a OK come back from her then Tuesday 1 month back she wants to date other guys. They yesterday I am told the not in love stuff etc
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:47 AM
 
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I think in your previous thread you were told repeatedly that this is not a relationship. It's not. Start making a plan to move out asap.

This woman is a user and very cruel to you.
I am going to speak about housing tomorrow. Stinks not having friends or family near by. I feel stuck
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:50 AM
 
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There are always other options.
You appear to like the dramatics of the entire situation.
If she really wanted to be with you she would not be with someone else.
You are right with that I guess I want her an I fear will I be homeless? Its kinda scary to me. See she wants me to step up she tells me what she wants so its on me to do it. Now I think if I do that stuff work/better my self she could just dump me again. She has the upper hand an that has to change
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Yeaaaa that is what is on my mind. I wonder where I can live for real I would have to go to a shelter if I was to leave
You left once. Do it again. I not kidding with you. mark my words: you WILL be witness to her screwing other guys, and you're gonna have to wash the sheets.

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She texts guys in there takes pics well that was how it was. She is right now on the chair not bothering with me talking to friends . its getting to be a joke but I want her so bad.


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Old 03-22-2015, 07:55 AM
 
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You left once. Do it again. I not kidding with you. mark my words: you WILL be witness to her screwing other guys, and you're gonna have to wash the sheets.





She did screw a guy in the house when I was gone. I think my mom is right why did I go back??
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:58 AM
 
Location: Pa
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You left once. Do it again. I not kidding with you. mark my words: you WILL be witness to her screwing other guys, and you're gonna have to wash the sheets.






Oh good lord is right.lol!
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Old 03-22-2015, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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She did screw a guy in the house when I was gone. I think my mom is right why did I go back??


Move home.




Now.
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Old 03-22-2015, 08:08 AM
 
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She did screw a guy in the house when I was gone. I think my mom is right why did I go back??
Because you are a glutton for punishment. You've been told in this thread and the other countless times to rid yourself of that woman. She is toxic and you need lots of distance between the two of you to completely rebuild your confidence.

As CSD mentioned, you always have options. Make the right choice and move on. She isnt worth the head/heart ache you are currently experiencing.
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