Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
What would be my husband being handsome or not add to my life? As long as I'm attracted to him, I can't see where other opinions matter.
__________________ ____________________________________________
My posts as a Mod will always be in red.
Be sure to review Terms of Service: TOS
And check this out: FAQ
Moderator: Relationships Forum / Hawaii Forum / Dogs / Pets / Current Events
I don't think it's *good looks* per say, but have to agree with Makala, I would have to be attracted, physically and intimately, to someone to even consider a relationship...much less, a happy relationship.
Hey... I picked him because he appealed to me. I absolutely do not care what other women think of him.
And yes... I'm happy because I like him and he likes me.
I have been with a few guys over the years that every woman I met told me were hot. I just didn't care to hear about what they thought of my dates. I mean, damn. If you think he's so gorgeous, you can date him when I'm done, ladies.
I guess some people are really into other people thinking their "man" is hot?
Eh. Whatever.
I'm in agreement with the rest of you. My opinion of my husband is the only opinion that matters to me.
__________________
When in doubt, check it out: FAQ
Me having a fulfilling life has nothing to do with the look of my husband, it has to do with my level of contentment, my inner peace, my connections with my family, my day to day happiness. The fact he's eye candy is irrelevant to anything really except it gives me pleasure to look at him. But he is so much more than simply a pretty face. He fills my heart with love, he takes care of me, he makes me laugh, he makes me think. He could have a horrible accident that ruins his face and I would still love him just as much.
NO. I had a very physically-attractive husband who turned out to be quite ugly on the inside. He didn't like me, our own son, his family nor my family. I've never met anyone as looks-deceiving as him. When you meet him, he's always smiling, and because he's quite handsome, people are often fooled. Also, because he was so handsome and knew it, he never worked on making his inner self a better person. He always thought that because he was so good looking, that was enough. In fact after I announced divorce on him, his first goal was to go straight to the gym and work on his body and meet a new girl. He doesn't get it and will never get it that there is nothing wrong with him on the inside. And you know what? Nothing will fix him because that's just who he is.
The only benefit of having an attractive (ex) husband is that our son turned out to be pretty darn cute. I'm trying to raise him to be a better person on the inside as much as I can.
It was when I felt loved that I had a more fulfilling life. My ex was good to me the first two years until right after we got married. Once the love and respect stopped, it all went downhill.
Last edited by AhRainess; 03-23-2015 at 08:21 AM..
Fulfillment comes from who my husband is as a person. No one's outer appearance is fulfilling.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
