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Old 03-22-2015, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Spin off from the attractive wives thread.

Just curious what the ladies with good looking husbands feel?

(Fyi I feel looks don't matter.)
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Middle of the ocean
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What would be my husband being handsome or not add to my life? As long as I'm attracted to him, I can't see where other opinions matter.
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:55 PM
 
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What would be my husband being handsome or not add to my life? As long as I'm attracted to him, I can't see where other opinions matter.

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Mr. CSD enhances my daily life tremendously most days and he is very attractive to me and that is all that matters,
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Old 03-22-2015, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I agree ladies.
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Old 03-22-2015, 10:18 PM
 
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I don't think it's *good looks* per say, but have to agree with Makala, I would have to be attracted, physically and intimately, to someone to even consider a relationship...much less, a happy relationship.
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Old 03-22-2015, 10:28 PM
 
Location: My House
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Hey... I picked him because he appealed to me. I absolutely do not care what other women think of him.

And yes... I'm happy because I like him and he likes me.

I have been with a few guys over the years that every woman I met told me were hot. I just didn't care to hear about what they thought of my dates. I mean, damn. If you think he's so gorgeous, you can date him when I'm done, ladies.

I guess some people are really into other people thinking their "man" is hot?

Eh. Whatever.

I'm in agreement with the rest of you. My opinion of my husband is the only opinion that matters to me.
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:21 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I'm happier than if he was ugly, I suppose.
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Old 03-23-2015, 06:54 AM
 
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Me having a fulfilling life has nothing to do with the look of my husband, it has to do with my level of contentment, my inner peace, my connections with my family, my day to day happiness. The fact he's eye candy is irrelevant to anything really except it gives me pleasure to look at him. But he is so much more than simply a pretty face. He fills my heart with love, he takes care of me, he makes me laugh, he makes me think. He could have a horrible accident that ruins his face and I would still love him just as much.
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Middle Earth
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NO. I had a very physically-attractive husband who turned out to be quite ugly on the inside. He didn't like me, our own son, his family nor my family. I've never met anyone as looks-deceiving as him. When you meet him, he's always smiling, and because he's quite handsome, people are often fooled. Also, because he was so handsome and knew it, he never worked on making his inner self a better person. He always thought that because he was so good looking, that was enough. In fact after I announced divorce on him, his first goal was to go straight to the gym and work on his body and meet a new girl. He doesn't get it and will never get it that there is nothing wrong with him on the inside. And you know what? Nothing will fix him because that's just who he is.

The only benefit of having an attractive (ex) husband is that our son turned out to be pretty darn cute. I'm trying to raise him to be a better person on the inside as much as I can.

It was when I felt loved that I had a more fulfilling life. My ex was good to me the first two years until right after we got married. Once the love and respect stopped, it all went downhill.

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Old 03-23-2015, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Fulfillment comes from who my husband is as a person. No one's outer appearance is fulfilling.
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