Had second date, I can't tell how I feel about him? (woman, love)
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My advice...............do NOT date anyone until you are emotionally stable.
Having sex with a guy you just met online makes me wonder how much "exaggerating big time" you did in your other post.
I am emotionally stable. I feel great.
And I regret posting anything about being suicidal, it was a complete exaggeration and now I see how bad it looks. I don't want to offend anyone who actually has felt that way before. I feel bad about that now.
No I made sure that the first serious discussion we had was a discussion on what we both want. I learned my lesson from last time. So yes, we do both want a relationship. Not necessarily each other, but you get the idea.
And yeah I actually don't have butterflies even after the sex, so I actually surprised myself. I honestly think he likes me more than I like him right now. He is very interested and wants to keep hanging out. He wants to visit me at school in two weeks and have me meet one of his friends who lives in Newport. (He lives in CT, I go to school in RI)
The bolded part seems to be the problem I often run into too. Once a girl starts to think that, it's all downhill
This guy will hopefully figure out that he is wasting his time but I think you should do him a favour and cease contact. It is very clear that you would be more interested in an aloof, colder, slightly dismissive less predictable type that would hold no long term relationship desires or stability. Let this nice guy find someone that does not see his affection as a weakness and the lack of butterflies as anything other than a temporary lust related indication that bears no relation to anything long term.
This guy will hopefully figure out that he is wasting his time but I think you should do him a favour and cease contact. It is very clear that you would be more interested in an aloof, colder, slightly dismissive less predictable type that would hold no long term relationship desires or stability. Let this nice guy find someone that does not see his affection as a weakness and the lack of butterflies as anything other than a temporary lust related indication that bears no relation to anything long term.
When did I mention not wanting something long term? So you're saying the no butterfly thing doesn't really mean anything in this scenario? I'm confused
When did I mention not wanting something long term? So you're saying the no butterfly thing doesn't really mean anything in this scenario? I'm confused
I'm saying that I think you would get butterflies over a more aloof guy that appeared to like you less than you liked him and one that was not avaliable or obviously interested in ltr. This current guy has shown you his whole deck...and all cards are on the table. Butterflies flutter away after the honeymoon period too. Maybe you should be honest with yourself about what you really want.
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