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Old 03-23-2015, 12:52 PM
 
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Can i get this thread deleted before i get grilled further? :P

Nope, you started it and those who post here will finish it

Be careful of the doors you unlock and open next time.

In regards to your original question if you did not get a name or a number of the elbow girl does it really make a difference in your daily life what her intentions were?

*see I didn't make fun........yet*

Seriously, I'm surprised you aren't engaged already....
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Old 03-23-2015, 01:19 PM
 
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Thanks . No she wasn't a friend but i was with her since the beginning of the night and developed some sort of rapport with her so i thought it wouldve been kinda disrespectful/awkward if i left in the middle.

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My take: she was definitely looking at him. She moved over to where he was. She even made "accidental" physical contact with him. She was definitely interested. I notice that everyone responding so far are men. You guys don't know how women operate. How the OP described is exactly how women operate.

OP, what stopped you from dancing with her? Was the other girl you were dancing with just a random from the crowd, or a friend? You definitely should have made a move toward the woman who'd been scoping you out, when the opportunity arose.
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Old 03-23-2015, 01:24 PM
 
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Thanks . No she wasn't a friend but i was with her since the beginning of the night and developed some sort of rapport with her so i thought it wouldve been kinda disrespectful/awkward if i left in the middle.
You sound like a good guy. I guess the only way would have been to find an excuse to go up to her at some point and discreetly chat briefly, and ask for a number, or ask where she works (to make conversation and, well, to find out where she works, lol).

If you're in a small town, you may run into her sometime. Anyway, now you know how women operate.
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Old 03-23-2015, 01:58 PM
 
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It's the Molly she was roll'n on.
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Old 03-23-2015, 02:01 PM
 
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You sound like a good guy. I guess the only way would have been to find an excuse to go up to her at some point and discreetly chat briefly, and ask for a number, or ask where she works (to make conversation and, well, to find out where she works, lol).

If you're in a small town, you may run into her sometime. Anyway, now you know how women operate.


Ruth you know darn well not all women "operate" like that and play those stupid little girl games.
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Old 03-23-2015, 02:05 PM
 
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Ruth you know darn well not all women "operate" like that and play those stupid little girl games.
"games"? They're complete strangers. She was doing what a lot of women do who spot an interesting stranger in a crowd. OK, some women actually go up to the guy and grab his crotch (this happened to a guy I was with, once), or "accidentally" brush him with their boobs. Would that have been better? He was with another woman, what was she supposed to do? How she did it is often "how it's done" in that type of situation.
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