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Old 03-23-2015, 05:14 PM
 
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Any tips?
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:20 PM
 
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Bewbs.

No but seriously, if you want to approach guys, just find some one whom you find attractive and talk to them. For most guys, they haven't had much experience getting approached, so as long as you are trying to get to know them a bit, they'll either get the hint, or think something is up. Some of them will think you're just passing time and being friendly and won't think anything of it, so you may have to go just a bit farther.
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:31 PM
 
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Jokes.
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:34 PM
 
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Jokes.
eh..

nope.

just walk over and do that thing women do where they touch you to make sure you are really there
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You see a guy you like and you like him, then talk to them.
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:40 PM
 
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1) Take whatever you think is "forward" and double it. Subtlety is overrated.

2a) If you suspect the guy is a shy type, then consider acting how you'd want a guy to act when he approaches you: confident, charismatic.

2b) If you suspect the guy is NOT the shy type, then drop enough hints for him to take the lead. (see #1; this may take more "hints" than you might think)
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Pa
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eh..

nope.

just walk over and do that thing women do where they touch you to make sure you are really there
Tweek a man's chest?
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Old 03-23-2015, 05:45 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Any tips?
Start practicing by making casual chat with guys in the grocery checkout line, just passing the time. Let your confidence build. Branch out from there.
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Old 03-23-2015, 06:19 PM
 
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Ask me how it's hanging
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Old 03-23-2015, 06:22 PM
 
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I never approached a guy in a romantic way. I probably won't due to my own shyness and insecurities.

The guys I am friends with now I just started talking to them through a friend of mine. When I talk to other men I just talk to them like I would anyone else. Just strike a conversation.

Nothing to get all techy about.
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