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Old 03-25-2015, 01:51 PM
 
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My excuse is that I am immature and boring at the same time and this why I have trouble getting a girlfriend. I know both are a turnoff, but it seems like immature guys can do well with women if they're wild and fun (not boring) AND boring guys can do well with women if they're mature (have a great job, have they're stuff together, just overall a mature life). So does being both boring and immature at the same time sound like a legitimate excuse?
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Old 03-25-2015, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Why are you looking to legitimize an excuse for being single? Given that you want to have a relationship, why don't you just change these things about yourself? Maturity and boringness can be changed by the individual, especially one who is self-aware to realize they are problem areas.
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Old 03-25-2015, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Hampstead NC
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Why are you looking to legitimize an excuse for being single? Given that you want to have a relationship, why don't you just change these things about yourself? Maturity and boringness can be changed by the individual, especially one who is self-aware to realize they are problem areas.
That is exactly what I was going to say.
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Who is asking you for an excuse???
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Sounds like good excuse to me.
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:03 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Boring people can mate with other boring people. Some nonboring people need boring people around to keep them grounded.
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:04 PM
 
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Why are you looking to legitimize an excuse for being single? Given that you want to have a relationship, why don't you just change these things about yourself? Maturity and boringness can be changed by the individual, especially one who is self-aware to realize they are problem areas.
I'll always be immature. I'm happy that way. And I'll probably always be a boring guy, I just don't have it in me to be fun/crazy.
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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My excuse is that I am immature and boring at the same time and this why I have trouble getting a girlfriend. ...
Not a good excuse. There is an immature and boring woman somewhere in this world waiting for you.

Focus on your strengths!!

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Old 03-25-2015, 02:11 PM
 
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Why do you need an excuse? There is no need to explain.
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Old 03-25-2015, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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Just find an immature and boring girl!!!
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