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Old 03-28-2015, 04:19 PM
 
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Have you talked to him about this?? Tell him you like a hard peeper please..
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Old 03-28-2015, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Colorado Denver
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It sees to have a reverse effect on women. Santa always gives me a a bottle of spiced rum for some reason
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A little rum is good for you. Usually the ladies will get more amorous & happy with some rum drink.

It's ALL Good.....

Salut"...
Lmao well I know I enjoy a bit of rum , or a sweet red lol
now that I think about it he does encourage me to drink up ... it does make the clothes fall off a bit easier lol actually he's an easy going fun loving spirit.
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Old 03-28-2015, 04:38 PM
 
Location: Colorado Denver
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That is awesome that you guys have a good time ......
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Have you talked to him about this?? Tell him you like a hard peeper please..
He truly a fun loving easy going man. I enjoy being around him it doesn't matter if he has a bit of an issue every so often getting a bit stiff honestly it's not that he can't it just takes time. He has WAY TO MANY POSITIVES to make this such a issue. So until he brings it up I won't say a thing
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Old 03-28-2015, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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He truly a fun loving easy going man. I enjoy being around him it doesn't matter if he has a bit of an issue every so often getting a bit stiff honestly it's not that he can't it just takes time. He has WAY TO MANY POSITIVES to make this such a issue. So until he brings it up I won't say a thing
One the one hand, it's good that you appreciate him and you don't want to pressure him, but on the other, his issue affects you and your relationship as well. It's okay for you to express concern and help him get the help he needs to get through this.
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Old 03-28-2015, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Colorado Denver
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One the one hand, it's good that you appreciate him and you don't want to pressure him, but on the other, his issue affects you and your relationship as well. It's okay for you to express concern and help him get the help he needs to get through this.
Honestly I'd say after ta to everyone that it's probably whiskey di** , I've never knew much about this issue but apparently it happens to some guys when they drink. He's how to work up a Blood when he went to the hospital and they said he was healthy
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Sometimes I think we ladies get a little spoiled when we're young (and therefore with younger men) because lots of times we don't have to do a thing and the guy is ready to go! Makes us feel great about OUR ability (lol). Then we all get a little older, sex isn't quite as new as it used to be and maybe the guy takes a little more time and a little more "work"...

I don't really have an issue with it because that gives us more time to do some things mutually and there's not a big rush. Maybe it doesn't seem as passionate but it can be even more satisfying. Of course if you're exhausting yourself and he's still having trouble, that's something else. But it's natural even for a guy in his 40's to be taking longer than he used to.
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Old 03-29-2015, 05:57 AM
 
Location: Colorado Denver
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Sometimes I think we ladies get a little spoiled when we're young (and therefore with younger men) because lots of times we don't have to do a thing and the guy is ready to go! Makes us feel great about OUR ability (lol). Then we all get a little older, sex isn't quite as new as it used to be and maybe the guy takes a little more time and a little more "work"...

I don't really have an issue with it because that gives us more time to do some things mutually and there's not a big rush. Maybe it doesn't seem as passionate but it can be even more satisfying. Of course if you're exhausting yourself and he's still having trouble, that's something else. But it's natural even for a guy in his 40's to be taking longer than he used to.
RENEE I think you're right I never really thought about it that way but yeah very true... before it was just A LOOK, A TOUCH now it's actually showing a bit of interest and effort... I guess I'm just spoiled, I'm slowly learning to get over myself... thanks
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