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Yeah....right. it's not.....dude was about to lose the extra cash and pushover girlfriend...he hasn't done anything but let her move a pucture. Maybe over as far as this thread goes.....but they'll be more....
I need some sort personal space to keep things which mean something special to me. Is that wrong ?
If I were you I would move back to my own place and take all of my belongings with me.
He doesn't want you in "his house" and he as much told you that when he said something about you closing the fridge door.
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Originally Posted by ScarletG
Yeah....right. it's not.....dude was about to lose the extra cash and pushover girlfriend...he hasn't done anything but let her move a pucture. Maybe over as far as this thread goes.....but they'll be more....
Agreed. This isn't over. The OP comes across as needy and needy women see what they want to see in relationships.
Yeah....right. it's not.....dude was about to lose the extra cash and pushover girlfriend...he hasn't done anything but let her move a pucture. Maybe over as far as this thread goes.....but they'll be more....
wow, you are really harsh. Issue has been settled. We found a mutual agreement over the weekend. All good. I just wanted to give an update, not give more ammunition.
And I DO like the motorcycle in the living room. I think it's awesome. I just don't like a few pics and I don't like carpet and dark drapes, dark everything. But we have agreed to find a new place in a year and I will be patient until then. I wanted too much too soon, probably because he told me to move in. But I will leave my stuff in my house so I keep my independence if needed.
I don't get the motorcycle statement - we are super compatible. I have never met a guy like that before who is so loving and caring and brings the best out in me.
Scolding you for something as inconsequential as closing the refrigerator, "because it's his house and you shouldn't do that" doesn't sound that nice, loving, or caring.
So I am sort of living at my bf's house since the day we met.
3,5 months ago .. yeah, I know ...
We made the decision that I rent out some furnished rooms in my house, about 10 minutes away. Still keeping one foot in it, just in case.
So most of my personal stuff is now at my bf's house. He gave me a room where I put all my belongings. The furniture and dishes and stuff is still at my house and stays there for now.
Am I wrong to expect to move into a completely new place in the next 1-2 years so it is all OUR stuff and not all his?
I moved into a man cave, his pics on the walls, his manly bed sheets, his decoration, motorcycle in the living room. Fine with me, but the house just doesn't feel like HOME to me. I feel like a guest and this will not change until we move somewhere else.
I want a fresh start where I can decorate and feel like it is OUR place. Where I have a couch that WE like. Pics on the walls we both like.
He keeps repeating it is OUR place but then every now and then he let's me feel it isn't mine and when I say something his answer is "well, I bought it, I pay for it, so of course it is mine. But it is OUR home."
Recently he had the fridge open for a while and I shut it to keep the cold in. He said something about it being his house and I shouldn't do that.
Our agreement was that I live there for free but pay half of the utilities and food.
Danger Will Robinson. Dive, dive, dive.
The minute he pulled rank and said, "It's my house," you should have said, "Fine. I'm looking for my keys and heading back to my house."
Yeah, it is his house. But he has elected to share it with you.
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