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Old 03-28-2015, 09:02 PM
 
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Because you are in denial. Basically you want the woman to come to you but you won't even go to them.



Exactly. Why are you here?

Clearly you want a relationship of some kind and your posts seems to be of the same thing over and over again...you're not helping anybody and you surely act like you don't want advice...so what is the point of all this? Are you trying show that you are different when 9 times out of 10 you're not? Not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to understand.
What's wrong with responding to posts/threads? I have no ulterior motives for posting.
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:05 PM
 
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That's your perception. Your observations are filtered through your mind. That can never be completely objective. Especially if like Auraleia says, you have some low self-esteem, or some other issue going on. But just be aware, how a dude comes across has a lot to do with whether women find him attractive. It's not all about looks. For some women, it's more about looks than for others. Some women, if you can show them some fun, or make them feel good about themselves, or have something interesting to say, you'll get their attention. You've decided to withdraw, and not show yourself to 'em, not show who you are. Unless you're some kind of wet blanket, there'll be women out there who'd be into you if you showed yourself to them.

Still not sure why you post here.
46 years has taught me otherwise. Life isn't as simple as you make it seem. There simply isn't someone for everyone.

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Old 03-28-2015, 09:20 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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What's wrong with responding to posts/threads? I have no ulterior motives for posting.
But why a RELATIONSHIP forum if you have no interest in dating, you aren't really helping anyone...if anything you kind of bring people down...it just seems like you're trying prove something that doesn't really matter in the first place.
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:25 PM
 
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But why a RELATIONSHIP forum if you have no interest in dating, you aren't really helping anyone...if anything you kind of bring people down...it just seems like you're trying prove something that doesn't really matter in the first place.
Some people are here to vent. Better they do that then becoming the next George Sodini.
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:28 PM
 
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But why a RELATIONSHIP forum if you have no interest in dating, you aren't really helping anyone...if anything you kind of bring people down...it just seems like you're trying prove something that doesn't really matter in the first place.
I do have interest in a relationship but for me its out of the realm of possibility. Doesn't mean I can't post here.
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Old 03-28-2015, 09:32 PM
 
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Some people are here to vent. Better they do that then becoming the next George Sodini.
I am not venting nor even angry.
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Old 03-28-2015, 10:06 PM
 
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I am not venting nor even angry.
Wasn't referring to you.
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Old 03-28-2015, 10:46 PM
 
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I do have interest in a relationship but for me its out of the realm of possibility. Doesn't mean I can't post here.
Never said you couldn't.

As I said before....I was just trying to understand and enlighten you a little. But I see it's not getting anywhere. I wish you the best of luck in the future.
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Old 03-28-2015, 10:54 PM
 
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46 years has taught me otherwise. Life isn't as simple as you make it seem. There simply isn't someone for everyone.
But you've never explained this. You've never told us what your "observations" are, what your experience is.
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Old 03-29-2015, 06:15 AM
 
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But you've never explained this. You've never told us what your "observations" are, what your experience is.
I pretty sure I have. Just spread out over dozens of posts.
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