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If women were interested then I probably would have. But since that was never the case then why force myself on them.
But...you've never asked.
What do you expect them to do? I mean....not every woman you come into contact with is going to show interest in a way YOU think it should be shown. I mean unless she's outright told you she's not interested then you won't know. You can't expect women to do all the work just like women can't expect men to do all the work. My point is you DON'T KNOW like you swear you do. Your lack of confidence is the reason you feel the way you do. You're in your mid 40s I am more than sure you know that you have to work for what you want.
No one said you have to outright grab the woman and try to hug her or whatever, but there is nothing wrong with expressing interest but you refuse to do that. That's YOUR fault. Not theirs. I think you need to admit that the way you see things is flawed. You can't always depend on your mind or what you see, you need to open your mouth and say something.
What do you expect them to do? I mean....not every woman you come into contact with is going to show interest in a way YOU think it should be shown. I mean unless she's out right told you she's not interested then you won't know. You can't expect women to do all the work just like women can't expect men to do all the work. My point is you DON'T KNOW like you swear you do. Your lack of confidence is the reason you feel the way you do. You're in your mid 40s I am more than sure you know that you have to work for what you want.
No one said you have to outright grab the woman and try to hug her or whatever, but there is nothing wrong with expressing interest but you refuse to do that. That's YOUR fault. Not theirs. I think you need to admit that the way you see things is flawed. You can't always depend on your mind or what you see, you need to open your mouth and say something.
I never placed fault or blame on women. Women are interested in some men and others they are not. That's life.
Okay you say your ugly as hell..well that is your first problem..not because you are but it's because you "think" you are. Believe me when I say I see ugly ass men every day with very attractive women. Why I don't know. I would like to think some women don't go strictly by looks or money, but I am sure for some that has something to do with it. I would suggest working on your confidence because until you get that you are not going to get anywhere
Let the man do what he wants. I prefer spending time and cuddling with a woman. But sadly, not every man gets that chance.
Then by all means....cuddle.
*salutes*
I'm going back to my video games.
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