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Old 03-30-2015, 10:43 AM
 
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How is it a trap for him?
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Old 03-30-2015, 10:47 AM
 
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How about...now?

If you're six weeks in, that means you have roughly eight months to go. In truth, that's not a lot of time to make big life decisions.
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Old 03-30-2015, 11:07 AM
 
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Maybe you're right, IDK.... I have a tendency to assume people don't have nefarious intentions.

I think it's also called naivety.
I was surprised when you made your statement chow. I just kind of figured you didn't follow any of her other threads that she posted. I didn't put two and two together until Ms. Redzin pointed it out. As much as I hate to say it....what she said made a lot of sense.

I didn't want to assume the worst....but if it's newer member on CD usually it's the worst case scenario.
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Old 03-30-2015, 11:11 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I was surprised when you made your statement chow. I just kind of figured you didn't follow any of her other threads that she posted. I didn't put two and two together until Ms. Redzin pointed it out.

I didn't want to assume the worst....but if it's newer member on CD usually it's the worst case scenario.
I wasn't familiar with her posting history and I did give the benefit of the doubt. But yeah, half the time you see some ridiculous story or post and then you look at the users join date and they are typically new members......

I find that most stories here now seem to be bogus. IDK....
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Old 03-30-2015, 02:06 PM
 
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How is it a trap for him?
Guy has friend he likes and enjoys sex with. Friend wants it to be more. Guy thinks friend can't get pregnant due to some medical issue, so he's not using BC (he should still have used it, but anyway)...

Girl is suddenly pregnant.

That has all the makings of a trap. It's straight out soap opera.
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Old 03-30-2015, 02:11 PM
 
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Guy has friend he likes and enjoys sex with. Friend wants it to be more. Guy thinks friend can't get pregnant due to some medical issue, so he's not using BC (he should still have used it, but anyway)...

Girl is suddenly pregnant.

That has all the makings of a trap. It's straight out soap opera.
Didn't she say he was seeing someone else at one point to?

Or was that another poster?

I'm not sure. I just want to clarify.
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Old 03-30-2015, 02:13 PM
 
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I wonder if he counted on the "benefit" of a baby with this "friend", hence the reason there are no friends with benefits.
It is a movie, a fantasy, something in real life that rarely works out for the best, one gets feelings, the other doesn't want to be commited to one person, then "TADA"...........by the way I'm pregnant and it's yours.......what a wreck.
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Old 03-30-2015, 02:19 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I'm not sure anybody else mentioned this, but congratulations, OP.

Congrats to many sleepless nights, diapers, tantrums, significant reduction in funds, etc; all the bitter sweet things of parenthood
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Old 03-30-2015, 02:31 PM
 
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This. Kinda was afraid to tell him cause I'm afraid of having a miscarriage. I had been told before I couldn't ever get pregnant. So I'm scared I'll never make it to 12 weeks.

If this is all true, then it would also be equally as irresponsible to spend copious amounts of time on C-D while failing to get the proper amount of prenatal care. Good luck to you.
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Old 03-30-2015, 02:57 PM
 
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You should tell him as soon as you know. This is his child as well, and he deserves to know. Do not hold this information back another second.
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