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Old 04-01-2015, 08:48 AM
 
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A doctor diagnosing infertility/fertility struggles in a 20 year old who has never tried to get pregnant before seems.....strange. Even present conditions like PCOS wouldn't rule out pregnancy to the point where contraception would be unnecessary.
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Old 04-01-2015, 10:16 AM
 
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A doctor diagnosing infertility/fertility struggles in a 20 year old who has never tried to get pregnant before seems.....strange. Even present conditions like PCOS wouldn't rule out pregnancy to the point where contraception would be unnecessary.
Exactly. Unless she had no uterus or no Fallopian tubes, it seems like a shoddy diagnosis.
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Old 04-01-2015, 10:17 AM
 
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I don't want to read through 13 pages of this thread...did she tell him yet?
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Old 04-01-2015, 11:05 AM
 
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Im wondering if she's even pregnant at all, and is just using that to snag this guy.
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Old 04-01-2015, 12:09 PM
 
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Im wondering if she's even pregnant at all, and is just using that to snag this guy.
I had a friend like that, her and this guy were strictly FB, however she was under some weird impression it was something more, meanwhile they only got together to do the deed and that's it. Anyway she once told me that she used to pray at night that he would get her pregnant so that he'd be in her life forever. This "relationship" went on for nine years! And for those of you thinking she had to be young and stupid....she's in her 40's.
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Old 04-01-2015, 12:17 PM
 
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A doctor diagnosing infertility/fertility struggles in a 20 year old who has never tried to get pregnant before seems.....strange. Even present conditions like PCOS wouldn't rule out pregnancy to the point where contraception would be unnecessary.
I have heard from several women before that they got pregnant because they didn't use bc due to doctors telling them they MIGHT not be able to get pregnant. I wish those doctors would stop using those words if they are not 100% sure.

STDs ... those women don't seem to care. Crabs and Aids is overrated anyway, right? .
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Old 04-01-2015, 01:13 PM
 
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I think it's entirely possible that these doctors never said it in the first place.

While there are certain conditions that could make conception difficult and barring any drastic pre-exsisting conditions, it would be extremely unlikely that a doctor would diagnose fertility problems, unless the OP has tried to get pregnant for over a year. Given how soon she got pregnant....I don't think the doctor actually said those words. And I can't imagine the gynecologist of a teenager not talking about STD prevention/protection--mine always did.
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Old 04-01-2015, 01:36 PM
 
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I read the other thread about how she might be pregnant by the FWB. My guess is this is all to trap him into having the relationship she wants to have with the guy. I don't believe a doctor told her she couldn't get pregnant or she might not get pregnant.

I had a roommate that did exactly this. Told a guy she couldn't get pregnant, then she got pregnant after the first couple of times they slept together. He committed to her and was excited to have a kid, but they broke up before the kid turned 2. It wasn't the lifetime commitment she was expecting to happen.
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Old 04-01-2015, 02:01 PM
 
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for me the soon the better, after the test confirming the pregnancy i think it's right for him to be aware of what is happen, just my 2cent
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Old 04-01-2015, 09:16 PM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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I can't believe everyone has forgotten about the trust fund from her beloved dead father -- the one she couldn't use to get BC because it was too expensive.

I pray this story is fake. My heart is getting weak reading these threads.
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