Insulting people because you can't have them.

[TenorSax83]

Insulting people because you can't have them smh... because that's really gonna make them want you more lol. I feel for these ppl

[wall st kid]

All they're doing is being classless and showing you that you made the right choice to say no.

The greatest comeback would be "you know that i was on the fence to date you and possibly change my mind, but since you acted this way and showed your true colors, i now know my original decision was a winning one"

[LafilleenNoire]

Lol, I just find it amusing and just laughed ot off which then makes me look real bitchy. This happens a lot. Guys procceeding to clown me after they realize they have no shot. All of a sudden I become fat and ugly. And I never turn a guy down in a mean manner. Although I felt bad after turning down this guy and he was so respectful and sweet about it. I almost wished I had said yes.

[RoseLikeAnyOther]

This has happened to me on a few occasions. Online dating (guys messaging me that I'm an awful person or shallow or vain because they didn't like something on my profile or because I didn't reply to their message). And also in real life. I remember I was at a bar towards the end of the night on my phone and this guy came up to me. I was in no way remotely interested. That should have been obvious when I half-assed our conversation and was avoiding eye contact with him. I just wanted him to leave me alone. He finally did. But then came back and told me all of these nasty things. Even though I could not have cared one bit about this person, it was still hurtful. Some people are CLUELESS about how to interact with others.

[laorbust61]

Originally Posted by SeaOfGrass

They're trying to save face, but it actually has the opposite effect.

I received a good dose of karma, by dating a man who bashed his former girlfriends to the current ones. This is the same guy who claims he makes it a point to "stay friends" with former girlfriends. But: he does this bashing thing on them behind their backs to the new girl he is interested in! When I was with him, he talked about an ex "not being that great" in bed. And at the time, I listened, and let him get away with it, unaware that he was simply manipulating me and attempting to bond himself to me in an unhealthy way. This is where karma comes in. When we broke up, he talked about ME to his new girlfriends..and I cringe to think what he might have said, if he was ignorant enough to discuss the intimate goings-on of the former girlfriend with me.

That's what I get for NOT paying attention to a man's character. He loves to refer to himself as a "good man" but look at all the skeezy behavior with females. Try to play the snake charmer, you'll get bitten.