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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
It means there's hope for the OP, as the number of those arrangements continues to grow. However, some of those arrangements involve marriage. If the OP remains committed to his no-marriage preference, then his options shrink to odds closer to finding a needle in a haystack.
Well, in regards to marriage, maybe I'd consider it after a super long probationary period.
Calling your dating relationships "probationary periods" is probably going to be offputting to those who realize they are on probation, when they thought they were just seeing somebody.
I found my current wife after telling her point blank that I wasn't into having a serious relationship. She also knew that I was clipped and wasn't going to have kids. I was adamant about the marriage part, at the time, I was having a lot of fun, and not even interested in having a serious committed relationship, but then she got me to change. The funny part was that I didn't get any pressure from her to make the change, which may have been the very reason why I made it.
Well, in regards to marriage, maybe I'd consider it after a super long probationary period.
A long probationary period is the only way to go! You're on the right track, in that regard.
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