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Old 04-05-2015, 09:52 PM
 
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So you started a thread to justify your actions? Why? What's the point?
No. I wanted to know if people did it. I used me as an example.

Do I feel good about lying to my wife. No.

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Hey, don't talk to my friend like that
Congrats boyo, You made the list.
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Old 04-05-2015, 09:56 PM
 
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Hmmm so Im with the minority here and ready to take a bashing. I think it depends on who you are with. I have lied with one ex before over the little things just because I knew the real answer could cause me alot of headache and i didnt have the time nor energy for it and it dragged me down.
Well, there you go. The key word in this statement is "ex".

Lie to your spouse, lie to yourself.
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:06 PM
 
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Hmmm so Im with the minority here and ready to take a bashing. I think it depends on who you are with. I have lied with one ex before over the little things just because I knew the real answer could cause me alot of headache and i didnt have the time nor energy for it and it dragged me down.
Looks like I really stirred up a hornets nest here. Bring extra raid, hell a flame thrower.

This has me thinking. I can remember other guys talking about this, my wifes friends. They all lied to people, spouses boy friends you name it. Some more than others admittedly but it's still there.

Why the self righteousness people?
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:26 PM
 
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Looks like I really stirred up a hornets nest here.

Why the self righteousness people?
The people that post on this forum...not a good representation of the actual world.
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:27 PM
 
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Well, there you go. The key word in this statement is "ex".

Lie to your spouse, lie to yourself.

Yes "ex" because I couldnt deal with it lol among other things
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:29 PM
 
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Looks like I really stirred up a hornets nest here. Bring extra raid, hell a flame thrower.

This has me thinking. I can remember other guys talking about this, my wifes friends. They all lied to people, spouses boy friends you name it. Some more than others admittedly but it's still there.

Why the self righteousness people?
Missing the point here or maybe we're on different pages
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:35 PM
 
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The people that post on this forum...not a good representation of the actual world.
Born again Christians? Never did anything right the first time?
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:36 PM
 
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Looks like I really stirred up a hornets nest here. Bring extra raid, hell a flame thrower.

This has me thinking. I can remember other guys talking about this, my wifes friends. They all lied to people, spouses boy friends you name it. Some more than others admittedly but it's still there.

Why the self righteousness people?
I guess we're a different crowd than you and your ex are used to. Try picking your women from a different crowd. You might not have to lie, and your next marriage might last.
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:47 PM
 
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Missing the point here or maybe we're on different pages

Ah ok sorry I get you now, yeah I guess people can sometimes tell white lies. Ever watched the prgram LIES its true. We dont even noticed we do it but its there alright.
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Old 04-05-2015, 10:58 PM
 
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Born again Christians? Never did anything right the first time?
I feel like a lot of people that replied didn't even really listen to you, just jumping to judgment and acting like they're better. But some of what you described people do on a regular basis whether they are conscious of it or not.
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