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I met this girl and we went out on a few dates...like 2 dates.
She invites me to a pool party at her place, I bring a couple of beers but she is hammered. Thing was she was drinking wine earlier, before my arrival.
That incident reminded me of the one with a former flame who was drinking scotch heavily on a meeting.
My question is:
Do you mind if a friend tells you about your drinking? Like telling you as a friend to get easy on the booze? or is it a "no, no".
I mean, I care for my friends, and I will tell her one time and one time alone...hey get easy with the drinking, but often I found out, some women don't like advice.
I wouldn't say anything. She's an adult, she can do what she wants. As long as it does not interfere with your safety or hers, then I would simply let her have a good time, make sure she gets home safely and never call her again.
If she is getting wasted and messed up with men she hardly knows, she's probably not the sharpest tool in the shed.
Telling behaviour.
As for friends, depends on the type of relationship. If you're close, then I don't see why not. But if you're mainly drinking buddies, or social acquaintances, I would just leave it alone. Some people can be touchy with their booze.
Of course, so long as no ones' safety or well-being is at risk.
I met this girl and we went out on a few dates...like 2 dates.
She invites me to a pool party at her place, I bring a couple of beers but she is hammered. Thing was she was drinking wine earlier, before my arrival.
That incident reminded me of the one with a former flame who was drinking scotch heavily on a meeting.
My question is:
Do you mind if a friend tells you about your drinking? Like telling you as a friend to get easy on the booze? or is it a "no, no".
I mean, I care for my friends, and I will tell her one time and one time alone...hey get easy with the drinking, but often I found out, some women don't like advice.
What do you think?
If she was drinking and having fun at a party, mind your own business.
If it's an ongoing occurrence and this person is your friend, say something.
If it's an ongoing occurrence and you've only been on a few dates, probably best to end it because she may have a problem.
I tend to not get involved with women who drink a lot. I am in my late 30's and it's not a very good look to be falling down drunk at that age.
You're not 21 anymore, act your age. I drink socially, but don't get wasted anymore. If you want to do that, fine, but I will be looking elsewhere. Sounds like you should too... or if you just want a social lay, I am sure she is down with that... hit it for a while
You did learn something important about her. If your not into her style of partying, it's probably not a good match. However, just more on, it's not your place as a date to reprimand her drinking.
People who have to drink to have fun often have two personalities and lots of other things they often have difficulty managing.
This is true, but we only know that these two women got drunk once. We don't know that they make a habit of it.
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