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I'm not a dude but I've dated and I am now married. He does not think of you as girl friend material. If a guy wants to date you he will. He does not take you out on dates because he does not want to waste money on someone he has zero interest in building a future. He is using you. And you are letting him. If he wanted to be with you he would.
Just need your input... As a female I've a lot of gfs, but is tough to get a good advise from a girl because they will always side with me. Since I've zero guy friends need to your in take.
I met this guy about 6 months ago through "Tinder" first date sparks were in the air. 2nd date was a little strange met his business partner. After that he comes over for a glass of wine then I go to his house. It went like this for about 2 month. Although he or I stay over I never slept w/ the guy just cuddle perhaps "mess around". Never ask me to go out for dinner/date like a normal guy would. I kinda felt "may be he's not that into me" I'm a smart gal I know when my presence is not wanted. I know his busy w/ getting his masters blah,blah! I know if you want something you'll make up time for it, correct?
So I had to teach myself to move along. "The guy is not that into me". Plenty of dudes are willing to have me by their side. After seeing/texting the guy for a while all of the sudden I stumble upon him in a bar few times. One time he was w/ a female others with friends, etc.. What happen to "I don't have the time" that's bull****! Didn't make it a big deal just mind my own business. All of the sudden the guy after couple weeks he begin to call me @ bizzar hrs of the night 1am/2am WTF?! I know what that means. Dude asking to come over. So I get my little tipsy self and goes to his house once again. But just mess around and don't let him have it. Now because he does it to me I do it too. One time I call him @3am just left the bar talking to a guy got inside and he "pop" in my mind. Cal him he didn't pick up so went hm.
After one week pass of the 3am event he texted " hey 3am miss call" I had to come up with an interesting excuse so I don't look crazy. Told the guy I was in Miami that weekend not sure why I accidentally call him. To make my story short.. really, really like this guy & he has a lot of qualities I want a guy to have. By now I know this guy doesn't want anything, so to keep him engaging/thinking of me. Here and there I text him cute picture on how I look. I probably send about 3 in different times. No nude pics though. I ask him yo watch a BBall game, he couldn't bc Friday had school. Told him I'm asking as a friend not asking to go on a date.
The other night once again stumble upon him in the bar. "Talking to another girl" go figure. I was about say hello but he look like he was busy. So I pretended like I didn't know him. After he left the bar dude was calling me. Guess for what? to come over... So I did . Stayed over mess around didn't let him have it. Told him "am sure another female will take care of my job" I know for sure dude likes me physically without a question. Just every time I see him I lose my dam mind, By hearing my crazy stuff what do you think?
You say you are a "smart girl"....but this post proves this to be untrue...but wait, I am female, so my opinion wasn't even solicited here.
Huh?
If you are his "Mrs. Right" you'll know within 24 hours. And then they exhaust you for the rest of your life. But in a good way, sorta.
I disagree
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. Stayed over mess around didn't let him have it. Told him "am sure another female will take care of my job" I know for sure dude likes me physically without a question. Just every time I see him I lose my dam mind, By hearing my crazy stuff what do you think? 
