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Old 04-19-2015, 01:05 AM
 
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I think I'm going to ask for a break guys. Something a little weird came up. Her ex started following her on Instagram and then she started following him. That's a little weird because they haven't spoken in over 3 years. Is this a cause for concern?
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Old 04-20-2015, 08:33 AM
 
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I think I'm going to ask for a break guys. Something a little weird came up. Her ex started following her on Instagram and then she started following him. That's a little weird because they haven't spoken in over 3 years. Is this a cause for concern?
Just dump her already. Both of you need to grow up before getting into another relationship.
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Old 04-20-2015, 02:44 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I think I'm going to ask for a break guys. Something a little weird came up. Her ex started following her on Instagram and then she started following him. That's a little weird because they haven't spoken in over 3 years. Is this a cause for concern?
Too much drama! Not worth it.
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Old 04-23-2015, 07:23 PM
 
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So we talked and she said this today "J I care about you so much but after our talk, don't you get it? I need some space to just BE for a while. You know I don't know what the hell I want, if I even want it at all. I don't want to keep doing things to make you think my mind is shifting a certain way. We just talked about this. I know you're really trying so hard. I know it hurts that you know I feel the way I do. I'm sorry. Trust me, I feel like a ****ty person & you don't deserve it" idk what to do
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Old 04-23-2015, 11:02 PM
 
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I responded back with "You're right I don't deserve this, were a couple but I'll give you your "space" "
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Old 04-23-2015, 11:14 PM
 
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Has she been acting like she doesn't trust you for the past two years? I'm a little confused on the timeline. This happened the first year and you've been together 3 years.

I agree she's making FAR too much out of what happened. She seems to thrive on drama & angst. Why would you WANT to stay in a relationship like that? I wouldn't.
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Old 04-23-2015, 11:20 PM
 
Location: California
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Give up on this and get going with your life. Graduating from college mean new jobs, new people, even new places. It's so much easier and more fun to do what you want without worrying about someone else all the time. This is my advice to you...and to her.
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Old 04-26-2015, 06:35 AM
 
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I haven't been texting her and the past two days she's just said "hope you had a good day" and then yesterday said "hey, have a good night!" But she knew I was upset and and asked why? And I was just like bc I miss my girlfriend that's why! And so far nothing from her. But I also was sending my friend the convo and accidentky sent this to my girlfriend by accident "she said why" lol but then I tried to make the recovery by saying "I miss my girlfriend that's why" . Maybe just saying it in the third person lol. Dumb mistake on my part. Obviously
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Old 04-26-2015, 09:03 AM
 
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oh God. too much drama. And this coming from me who is posting my marriage drama here. And I LOATHE drama..

So Op, you cheated on her, and she is trying to prove she can cheat on you too... enjoy your dramatic life together.

I sure as hell am tired of my OWN drama. You both seem to like it though. Ugh.

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Old 04-26-2015, 09:28 AM
 
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I didn't cheat on her. And she has never cheated on me.
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