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Old 04-13-2015, 12:01 PM
 
Location: NY
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I guess it depends on what you consider "high" but most women do, in fact, enjoy sex. So it shouldn't be too hard to go out and meet some of them.
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:05 PM
 
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It's pretty common. And it doesn't depend on age, IME. I think Julia & sinsativ are right--it depends on the quality of the relationship and how attentive to her you are in and out of bed. And I use the term "bed" here loosely. If you're both into each other, it happens naturally. Women will take the lead, if they're into you, and the feeling's mutual.

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Sex drive will vary based on the quality of sex she gets. If you want her drive to go up, routinely give her really good orgasms. If she dislikes sex--or you--it won't make much of a difference, but oxytocin and endorphins are released during orgasm for a reason.
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The other thing to really put into this explanation is, A woman will develop a HIGH SEX drive if the partner she's with promotes it. You give a woman the five main orgasms, and blow her mind on a regular basis, she'll be asking for it more than you would imagine.
So, a high sex drive isn't just in their DNA, its developed by their partner. You want good regular sex? Give Good Regular hot passionate sex. Treat her like it's all about her when you make love, and she will want that feeling all the time.
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:11 PM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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lol

I'm honestly floored by some of these responses. I don't know if this place is simply overpopulated with embittered, misogynist trolls or hapless sex-deprived guys who deserve some lovin'.

They're a dime in a dozen.

You guys must be picking the wrong women.
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:12 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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Women around 35 to 40 before hitting menopause have their libido goin' crazy. Specially when single

However, unless bipolar or something like that, they tend to have some degree of control over their urges.

Some will have a FWB until they have a steady relationship.

Or just the company of the always trustful "Mr Shiny" (the device)

Woman are mostly conservative about who they trust when it comes to sex. In poetry it's called "her secret garden" or something.

Call it "society constrains", "not wanting the easy label", "religious norms" etc.

But yes, they have a pretty regular libido goin' on...and you better deliver and do it good. Women orgasm is mostly mentally as well as physical.

A Woman's Guide to Reviving Sex Drive

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Old 04-13-2015, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Just curious
Im asking you guys with experience.
How common is it to meet a woman with a high sex drive?
Meeting them is rather easy. Getting them to decide YOU are someone they want to have sex with...more difficult.

I've managed. Married her, too!
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:17 PM
 
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Sex drive will vary based on the quality of sex she gets. If you want her drive to go up, routinely give her really good orgasms. If she dislikes sex--or you--it won't make much of a difference, but oxytocin and endorphins are released during orgasm for a reason.
This is exactly right.If it is really good women crave it.If not they lose interest fast.
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Wants it everyday just about or at least 80 90 percent of the time
My wife and I are good for 2/3X per week usually, but I know married guys who would be literally ecstatic if their wives wanted it even once a week or so. Some of these guys go MONTHS. One female friend as well, whose husband is happy with almost never having sex, and she wants it at least a couple times a week.

It's a matter of perspective.
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:18 PM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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You already said you can't last long in bed so why are you looking for a woman with a high sex drive?
Priceless. I have the OP on ignore, but I truly appreciate your research and post.
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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lol

I'm honestly floored by some of these responses. I don't know if this place is simply overpopulated with embittered, misogynist trolls or hapless sex-deprived guys who deserve some lovin'.

They're a dime in a dozen.

You guys must be picking the wrong women.
Lol, what would you know about other women's sex drive? Have you been with numerous women?
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Old 04-13-2015, 12:25 PM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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Lol, what would you know about other women's sex drive? Have you been with numerous women?
Considering I'm a woman and I'm surrounded by women all the time, and young women love talking about sex, I think I have a pretty good idea.

I've never met a girl who said she didn't enjoy sex. I've met girls who haven't had sex and weren't interested in it. But I don't know any woman who has had sex and become uninterested in it as a whole.

Unless, of course, they're asexual. But that's a different idea.
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