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okay, you got me, my bad. that "quote" was buried fairly deep into the segment and i think at that point i had just lost interest in the dialogue. on second passing i do recall none of the advice given had any value, in fact now seems like they were in the script as buzz worthy rules for pop culture (popular consumption). almost like they were you could make it into a clip for a movie trailer.
but i did another pass and figured out that these were gems the rules originated from, which is fairly descent rules for women to attract men. i'd re-order them though. anyways, thanks for the correction, and i also don't always read every posts, just those of interest, which is why i read yours. have a good day.
Rule#1: don't try to change a man
Rule#2: find him interesting even if you have to fake it.
Rule#3: men are very visual.... show some skin, get his attention in you physically; always present an allure of sexual availability
Rule#4: don't ***** or nag, it's a very unattractive quality for men
Rule#5: men do prefer long hair
Rules for attracting women
1. Don't try to change her.
2. Try to find her interesting.
3. Women are visual too. Maintain that ish. Take care of yourself.
4. Don't ***** or nag. Also don't be bossy.
5. Women prefer well groomed hair, please take care of that. In fact, just be well groomed in general.
The rules are pretty much the same and are not gender related. People care about looks, being accepted, want to be interesting, and not be nagged. (Yes, men can ***** and nag. It's not attractive in either gender.)
It's a myth that women don't care about looks.
1. Don't try to change her.
2. Try to find her interesting.
3. Women are visual too. Maintain that ish. Take care of yourself.
4. Don't ***** or nag. Also don't be bossy.
5. Women prefer well groomed hair, please take care of that. In fact, just be well groomed in general.
The rules are pretty much the same and are not gender related. People care about looks, being accepted, want to be interesting, and not be nagged. (Yes, men can ***** and nag. It's not attractive in either gender.)
It's a myth that women don't care about looks.
haha, you again. someone please throw away these mutant seeds that grow up thinking men and women are the same except for anatomy. nothing could be further from the truth from an evolutionary psychology, anthropological, biological and medical perspective.
if that's the case, women don't need men, go lesbian.
and yes, i do believe women NEED men, it's hard wired, despite the gender advocacy dogma. even collectively to establish police powers in public regulation of male conduct, for which they could not be Ms. Independent without.
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I didn't say that. I don't think that. That's what the video says. That's point #4. I didn't phrase it very well; M3 misunderstood too.
And they fall in love at the end?? This is why I loathe most romcoms.
They won't in any romcom I write. Heck, I'll base it on CD. Yes, folks, you are my source material. MUAH HA HA HA HA!
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I understood what you meant from your first post. I think some people are just trying to stir things up. What else is new?
Really. All the usual suspects, too. Hypersensitive theater, to be sure.
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Rules for attracting women
1. Don't try to change her.
2. Try to find her interesting.
3. Women are visual too. Maintain that ish. Take care of yourself.
4. Don't ***** or nag. Also don't be bossy.
5. Women prefer well groomed hair, please take care of that. In fact, just be well groomed in general.
The rules are pretty much the same and are not gender related. People care about looks, being accepted, want to be interesting, and not be nagged. (Yes, men can ***** and nag. It's not attractive in either gender.)
It's a myth that women don't care about looks.
1. Pretty much. Only one man has ever tried to change me. I can't stand the thought of him even now. Narcissistic, insecure little toad.
2. If he doesn't find me interesting, not sure why he'd be with me.
3. Definitely. In fact, that's my first rule: I have to want to see him naked. If I don't, he's just a friend.
4. See Item 1.
5. See Item 3. Grooming and hygiene. I am dismayed that men my age are starting to buy into the hipster lumbersexual beardo look. Hint: It's on its way out, so you may as well skip trying to emulate young guys in an attempt to recapture your youth.
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"... in my playgroup ..."
Well now, Lilac110, that sounds intriguing! Care to enlighten us?
Ha! It sounds more interesting than it is. It's just a term for "dating pool." I'm early Gen-X, so my pool is early Gen-X/late Boomer. I typically go for ages 42 to 52, though I have yet to date someone in his 50s since my last major relationship ended.
They won't in any romcom I write. Heck, I'll base it on CD.
You're too late; someone beat you to it. It was called "The 40-Year Old Virgin."
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2. If he doesn't find me interesting, not sure why he'd be with me.
Don't know about your particular case, but in general it has to do with a certain 3 letter word. Those letters, in no particular order, are S, E, and X.
haha, you again. someone please throw away these mutant seeds that grow up thinking men and women are the same except for anatomy. nothing could be further from the truth from an evolutionary psychology, anthropological, biological and medical perspective.
if that's the case, women don't need men, go lesbian.
and yes, i do believe women NEED men, it's hard wired, despite the gender advocacy dogma. even collectively to establish police powers in public regulation of male conduct, for which they could not be Ms. Independent without.
I dont think men and women are the same in several areas. However the ideas that were stated to attract a male are the same for women. Some women need men, and some don't. Some men need women and some don't. Some people remain happily single their whole life.Everyone needs a man/woman to procreate though.
You're too late; someone beat you to it. It was called "The 40-Year Old Virgin."
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Don't know about your particular case, but in general it has to do with a certain 3 letter word. Those letters, in no particular order, are S, E, and X.
Then he's a five-letter word: M-O-R-O-N because he's not getting any. But he can pay for my dinner if he's under the mistaken impression it will help his cause.
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