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I was wondering if anyone else noticed this as well.
We noticed. We just ignore when the children act up.
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If she asked where things were, it's because she wanted to know what to expect from the relationship. Was it going to be casual, or were you both working toward more. With the bolded, if she wanted to work toward an actual relationship, and you didn't, then that's not fun for her, especially if she ends up really attached to you, and becomes heart-broken.
Some women get emotional when it comes to sex. FWB can turn messy for some. Like some women who start off casual, but get attached somewhere down the line. Then they start the plotting. Wanting to know how they can make the guy love them, or get serious with them. The jealousy starts, arguing, her demanding more attention, wanting to know who you're with, etc.
Not all FWB end up that way. Some go on for years with nobody getting attached more than just friends. But in alot of cases, someone ends up too attached and the drama, or games, start. So wanting something casual is probably something you need to start mentioning to women early on.
So if this woman didn't take that well, just means she spared you both alot of trouble, because she was probably going to get attached later. Otherwise, she may not have asked you anything and just continued with the casual sex.
In many cases when people ask "Where/What are we?" they usually are wondering, and hoping, things are progressing. But in other cases, they wanna be sure things are staying the same, and not complicating. But the former seems to be the case more times it seems.
well said my friend, very well said.
MR P, you need to understand that for women, sex is a very emotional event. they tend to make a serious connection with us. i understand that men think of sex as just something else to do and have fun doing it. we really need to stop thinking that way though as it gets us into trouble on a regular basis. if all you want from a woman is sex, then take the money you would have spent on flowers, dinners, drinks, etc. and go hire a hooker for a couple of throws. that way you always get to where you want to be with no fuss, no muss, no having to play the game, and then hope that the woman doesnt ask you uncomfortable questions about where your relationship is going.
otherwise MR P, GROW UP AND GROW A PAIR, and act like a man instead of a pimply faced teenager just looking for a good time from mary jane rottencrotch.
And honestly, what are you doing sleeping with a woman who does not understand that the two of you are only casual. Your supposed to discuss that before sex.
I don't recall direct, pre-sex discussions involving real intentions, yet were seeming implications of "what we were" (back the dark ages). I see it has not changed, except for having since created a name for it, which I suppose was to simplify (err, justify) things, but looks like that is not helping to clarify. Hey, I wonder if it might be good to have a checklist available going in... but wonder how honest the responses may be even then? Just think how feelings and all else could be spared - (and then boys would be less likely to open themselves up to online poster's scrutiny with such a question).
Noone believes a woman agreed to have sex with you, op.
its possible, there are crazy women in this world
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Originally Posted by Sydney123
I would think that having her ask ... Is it in yet? to be more troubling.
sydney, your vicious side is showing, i like it
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