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Old 04-18-2015, 08:13 PM
 
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Ima make this short.

Me and my gf thought she was pregnant, she been having symptoms for a week. I was telling her to get a pregnancy test.

On a day i was busy with a lot of school work, she tells me she bought it. I was like okay and went back to doing my school work. Later she tells me that it was negative and was hella mad because i wasnt there for her when she took it..

I was like i have to be there for you to watch you pee on a damn stick? What type of **** is that.. She was saying how a real man would be there for her and i wasnt . But i was busy doing school work that was due at midnight, nd she didnt even tell me she was gonna take it and she could of waited if she actually wanted me there.

Is she crazy or is it just me
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:19 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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I think I'd want privacy. However, she is who she is. You can't change that.
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:20 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Are you 16?
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Condoms, man; I suggest you use them
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:22 PM
 
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Sounds like you're both still in high school and should be using protection. Less stress w/ finals coming up.
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You don't really sound crazy, just immature.

Act like you care next time. Or better yet, use better birth control.
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:26 PM
 
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How convenient. An account named "Lolman" created presumably today to ask an insanely stupid question.

If you aren't a troll then I apologize, but this doesn't add up.
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:47 PM
 
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Ima make this short.

Me and my gf thought she was pregnant, she been having symptoms for a week. I was telling her to get a pregnancy test.

On a day i was busy with a lot of school work, she tells me she bought it. I was like okay and went back to doing my school work. Later she tells me that it was negative and was hella mad because i wasnt there for her when she took it..

I was like i have to be there for you to watch you pee on a damn stick? What type of **** is that.. She was saying how a real man would be there for her and i wasnt . But i was busy doing school work that was due at midnight, nd she didnt even tell me she was gonna take it and she could of waited if she actually wanted me there.

Is she crazy or is it just me
Both of you need to grow up. If she wanted you there...for what ever reason...she should have spoke up and not got mad afterwards.

However....condoms....every time.
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Old 04-18-2015, 08:59 PM
 
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Condoms, man; I suggest you use them
Agree. Do the rest of society a favor, and don't procreate.
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Old 04-18-2015, 09:11 PM
 
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Heres the real deal, im his gf. Heres my side. Me and him were a long distance couple and he ended up getting me pregnant before. I took the test after he visited and it was negative, and i ended up having a miscarriage without ever knowing i was pregnant in the first place. He knew how the issue affected me the last time and i understood that he couldnt be there to comfort me or face the situation with me, but this time he should have knowing what we went through last time. i feel like if were having sex, he should be going through everything with me. The embarrassment of buying the test, the stress until you see the results. Especially knowing how everything ended up before. Its not just peeing on a stick, as everyone said its having a baby and thats something that would change both of our lives. Hes very immature and doesnt realize that he makes himself seem like he isnt someone i can lean on when something is worrying me. Thats all...btw i told him i was headed to buy the test. After three years of being with me i think he knows that when i buy something im going to use it.. common sense, is it not?
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