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She is. Now she's basically throwing a fit, with all the "I guess I'll just kiss EVERYbody now since apparently that's how it's done ..." teenage comments.
OP, I think your problem is that you are Looking For The One. If that is the case, you will not approach this process properly. You will come into every date thinking, "Are you the one? Are YOU the ONE????!!!"
As the dates progress, your expectations will be HIGH, as well as your emotional investment.
RELAX and take your time to get to know people. Kiss a few frogs and get over yourself.
I think you can look for the One and still relax and take your time getting to know people. Nothing wrong with looking for the One, I think we all are on some level.
I think you can look for the One and still relax and take your time getting to know people. Nothing wrong with looking for the One, I think we all are on some level.
Most people probably are, but you don't lead with that. If she dropped it as a mission statement, her feelings would not get hurt after 2 dates.
I doubt she's really gonna start kissing every guy she meets and being ****, she's clearly upset and just saying that out of frustration /disappointment, which I understand, we all say things we don't mean when we're upset.
C'mon the guy lead her on a little, kissing, holding hands as for me Id probably also think he's interested, I mean I'd also be aware there's a possibility Id never hear from him again, cause some guys just act like that. But honestly Im of the believe that kissing and hand holding should be reserved for people you're into. Now if the guy goes in for the kiss and the kiss is bad then I can maybe understand not hearing from him, but he kept kissing her on both dates, if he felt no chemistry why kiss her againf and again???
He didn't even sleep with her! Saying you want a serious relationship and then sleeping with somebody and than you dump them is leading somebody on. Telling somebody you're single when you're really not is leading somebody on. Kissing somebody and holding hands mean nothing. Do you know how many females I've kisssed that I didn't give a **** about?
The kind of guys who go for me in the old way of not online dating are not usually the kind of guys I go for lol. I mean sometimes it happens but not often. I actually get rooster blocked a lot lmao. Anyway on me being too dramatic maybe. Like I said I'm intuitive and my gut said this was going to go somewhere. It's disappointing but I'll get over it in time. It's clear he never was that into me.
You've just encountered a smooth playa; they're very convincing at making you feel this way.
Ill regurgitate...never underestimate a man's determination when it comes to getting down your pants!
I think people should realize the definition of leading someone on varies so much it's basically a meaningless phrase. To the OP, kissing is an indicator of interest. To me as a guy, kissing is just something fun to do on a date but doesn't really indicate any real interest. If the guy is a player, kissing means nothing.
He didn't even sleep with her! Saying you want a serious relationship and then sleeping with somebody and than you dump them is leading somebody on. Telling somebody you're single when you're really not is leading somebody on. Kissing somebody and holding hands mean nothing. Do you know how many females I've kisssed that I didn't give a **** about?
I guess I have a totally different view of what leading someone on means, the things you've mentioned are not guys who lead you on but rather situations where the person is a complete *expletive*. As for you kissing countless women you don't care about, all I can say is just cause you did it doesn't make it right or mean that you didn't lead them on. I don't even understand why anybody would want to kiss someone they don't like!
I think people should realize the definition of leading someone on varies so much it's basically a meaningless phrase. To the OP, kissing is an indicator of interest. To me as a guy, kissing is just something fun to do on a date but doesn't really indicate any real interest. If the guy is a player, kissing means nothing.
Agreed! But just because a guy is a player doesn't mean he's not leading on the girl by kissing her, after all lots of time you don't find out the guy is a player until after the fact.
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I guess I have a totally different view of what leading someone on means, the things you've mentioned are not guys who lead you on but rather situations where the person is a complete *expletive*. As for you kissing countless women you don't care about, all I can say is just cause you did it doesn't make it right or mean that you didn't lead them on. I don't even understand why anybody would want to kiss someone they don't like!
A) Kissing is fun
B) Kissing is a good way to determine chemistry, sexual or otherwise
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