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Old 05-11-2015, 04:25 PM
 
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Yeah move her in but make sure you give her all your passwords and your bank card and some credit cards, this way she won't be robbing you while you go to work.
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Old 05-11-2015, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Pacific 🌉 °N, 🌄°W
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If you met a woman through a site such as OkCupid, about a few weeks ago and you have seen each other physically twice...and you clicked very well...then she tells you she is actually homeless right now and made her profile on a public library computer...would you have her move in with you?.
No way!

Meeting someone twice is not going to give you a clear indication of what emotional baggage they hold.
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Old 05-11-2015, 05:33 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Sad, But you cannot just move people in without knowing them. No reason to call her pathetic, You would be surprised how many people have gone through just this. If she is of good character maybe you can help her find work or get some other help.

Last edited by D. Scott; 05-11-2015 at 05:58 PM..
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Old 05-11-2015, 09:38 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Help her start up a massage business, hire her as your maid, pay her a wage and put her into transitional housing where she can have a place to live for little rent, time to save her money and find better paying work to move out and be on her own. Maybe by then, if you still are dating, youd know her better and whether shes a flake or genuine.

I dislike how you consider her pathetic just because shes homeless. You should find someone else you respect.
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Old 05-12-2015, 12:28 AM
 
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This is an arrangement of prostitution. Nothing more, nothing less. She will give the OP sex in exchange for free room and board. She doesn't love him, he doesn't love her. He calls her pathetic, which means he doesn't care or respect her, but the free sex would be convenient for him because he doesn't have to work for it.
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Old 05-12-2015, 12:42 AM
 
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I wouldn't date someone financially or emotionally unstable. I never understood why others even consider such arrangements.
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Old 05-12-2015, 02:50 AM
 
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I wouldn't date someone financially or emotionally unstable. I never understood why others even consider such arrangements.
The problem with that is sometimes you don't know they're crazy until 6 months in!
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Old 05-12-2015, 03:49 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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The problem with that is sometimes you don't know they're crazy until 6 months in!
About the same time infatuation starts to diminish. Coincidence? Maybe
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Old 05-12-2015, 04:00 AM
 
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this is trolling.

I think the OP made this up to trash homeless women.
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