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Old 05-14-2015, 11:50 AM
 
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[LEFT]I met a very a very nice girl on a trip I took with friends couple of weeks ago. We met in a hike club, she stayed with some friends and joined me and my friends hiking group. She was very sweet and I told her that it will be great if she can join us again. I gave my number because I didn’t have my mobile with me, she send me a message later that day and we texted for a couple of times. [/LEFT]
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[LEFT]It looked like she was also into me so I asked her on a date she agreed and but said she told me she was a little busy because of the holidays and a test she was studding for. We continued to text but it looked like she was still a little busy. When I tried to ask her on a date again she told that she started to date another guy two weeks ago and it wouldn’t be appropriate. I agreed because our intentions were clear and we didn’t plan to meet as friends. We texted couple of more times on hiking with our friends and I wished her good luck on her test.[/LEFT]
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[LEFT]While I was out of the country (two weeks vacation) she texted me and asked for my full name to check Facebook and asked if my flight is soon. I gave her my full name and told her I’m already there.[/LEFT]
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[LEFT]I got a friend request but… she told that her friend sent me a friend request and if we like what we see we can talk and meet.[/LEFT]
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She looks nice (her friend) but I prefer to date her and not her friend. I didn’t talk to her friend yet. What should I do? I think I still want to keep my chances with her. I don't know if they are close friends.. (i don't think they are friends on Facebook)
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Old 05-14-2015, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Hampton Roads
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If she was interested, she wouldn't set you up with a friend.
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Old 05-14-2015, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Huntsville, AL
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If she was interested, she wouldn't set you up with a friend.
Or, she's being respectful to the guy she just started seeing. She's being honest with you about things, so ask her, "If you weren't seeing him, would you be interested in me?" - That's an up front, honest, sincere question that will give you the answer. Might not get the answer you want, but at least you'll know if you'd stand a chance. If the answer is 'yes' - then once she's not seeing him, you'll have your shot. With a 'no' answer, that doesn't stop you from being friends - via facebook or real life... Good luck.
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Old 05-14-2015, 12:05 PM
 
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If your girl starts acting up, then you take her friend

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