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Old 05-21-2015, 11:24 PM
 
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Love does not equal compatibility. Just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a good partner for you to be with over the long term.

Love is Not Enough
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:30 PM
 
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Love does not equal compatibility. Just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a good partner for you to be with over the long term.

Love is Not Enough
I think you're digging up excuses.

Either you want to be with your partner or you don't.

It's that simple.
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:44 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I think you're digging up excuses.

Either you want to be with your partner or you don't.

It's that simple.
Yes, my thoughts exactly.

OP. You need to decide and quit making excuse. I understand, its not easy, but if you want something in life (your dreams) you have to be willing to do the hard things and take risks; fantasizing about is going to get you nowhere.
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:44 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Love does not equal compatibility. Just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a good partner for you to be with over the long term.

Love is Not Enough

Love is enough and any obstacle can be overcome if both parties want to work it out.

You're only looking for self-justification.

All you have done since being here is make excuses and blame other people for your problems. Do something.
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:48 PM
 
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I agree. You could easily love someone who is toxic for you. You can also be in love with someone knowing in the end it's not enough to keep you together.
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:48 PM
 
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Please, ignore my situation. I want genuine opinions on this.
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:49 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Please, ignore my situation. I want genuine opinions on this.

My opinion is that love is enough. As long as both people are willing to work out the problem and come to a solution it can be done. If they are in love, they will do that.
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:52 PM
 
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My opinion is that love is enough. As long as both people are willing to work out the problem and come to a solution it can be done. If they are in love, they will do that.
So you disagree with this article? Even if 2 people are completely incompatible, love can overcome that?
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Old 05-21-2015, 11:54 PM
 
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So you disagree with this article? Even if 2 people are completely incompatible, love can overcome that?
Yes, because the article is merely written to get people who already agree with him, to agree with him.

"Love somebody who treats you poorly"
"Love somebody who makes us feel worse about ourselves"

That's not love.
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Old 05-22-2015, 12:00 AM
 
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So you disagree with this article? Even if 2 people are completely incompatible, love can overcome that?
Why would I be in love with someone that I'm completely incompatible with in the first place?
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