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she was dated you
broke up with you
got engaged with someone else
broke up the engagement
And now holding hands with you in Applebee's.
Crazy woman!
I don't know if I'd say crazy but clearly she has her troubles. I agree with what another poster said about it being an error for the OP to have held hands and kissed.
Now, if this was a situation of someone the OP dated a short while and it was now years later. I'd be saying it's probably something he should pursue.
A woman who dated me for three months broke up with me in February to get back with someone whom she dated before she met me. Not only did she break up with me, but she even said that she didn't want us to even see each other again. They were engaged within a month after they got back together. A few days ago, they broke up the engagement. She contacted me on Facebook messenger on Friday morning, because she misses me and wanted to meet me. I decided to meet her at Applebees on Friday night. I was on the impression that we would be friends. But she held my hand and we later kissed a few times that night. Should I get back together with her?
Dude. You are not a toggle to turn off or on. You are not plan B.
PLEASE just move on. If she can have a change of heart quickly then she can do this again.
She doesn't seem to be stable. She seems to react to whatever or whoever fits the situation.
Life is a learning ground, and if you miss a lesson, you get it again in a different way. Our job is to go to school and learn our lessons well the first time so we have time for many more to be crammed into our lifetime. Look at the whole thing from a higher perspective, like you are standing on a hill, or like you are answering someone else who has asked the question you have. What would you say?
Is this TYPE of person the one you want to end up with? Is she going to make you happy waking up next to her each morning? Is the sex wild, and varied? What would she have to do to be the person you need in your life right now?
I think you know, deep down, the answer to your question, so just go with that answer and do not look back - because you cannot go back.
As I see it, it is like you have been given a lecture, so you know what you should do, but now you want to bang your hear against the brick wall to force the information in there in a painful way.
don't get serious with her again, you are in between guy
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Walk away
