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Bumping because I would like to hear what you guys think about the texts.
The texts make me think that he has issues, that are visible to other people. I think maybe you would be better off focusing your energy on someone who has a better idea of they are and what they want.
Why not just ask him what he wants or what his intentions are?
Why make it all so complicated?
Once you ask and he answers you then you will know and proceed from that moment on.
Yeah, I think you need to lay your cards on the table and speak the truth about what you would like to see out of this relationship. You can't continue to try to have it both ways.
If he isn't interested in a romantic connection, you need to cut him off. I don't mean deliver it like an ultimatum. Don't be nasty about it. If he isn't truly interested in a romantic relationship, Just distance yourself to protect yourself from his BS. It isn't healthy for either of you to keep dragging this around.
Yeah, I think you need to lay your cards on the table and speak the truth about what you would like to see out of this relationship. You can't continue to try to have it both ways.
If he isn't interested in a romantic connection, you need to cut him off. I don't mean deliver it like an ultimatum. Don't be nasty about it. If he isn't truly interested in a romantic relationship, Just distance yourself to protect yourself from his BS. It isn't healthy for either of you to keep dragging this around.
If we stop being friends we'll still pay attention to each other like crazy which is what happened last time... So irritating
Leave him alone until you hear from the grapevine he came out, then call him up at that time.
He wants you but he's not ready to deal with it yet.
That's not a headache you want. It sounds all romantic like you can guide him to self acceptance but in real life all I've ever seen happen is the "struggling with their sexuality" partner drive the "comfortable with themselves" partner crazy.
So I confronted him via text on why he specifically chose me to help him on a research paper on gay rights (a topic that he chose), and he said "because you're a good writer that's it"
Really? He expects me to believe that? And if this was genuine, he'd acknowledge it was insensitive of him.
So I confronted him via text on why he specifically chose me to help him on a research paper on gay rights (a topic that he chose), and he said "because you're a good writer that's it"
Really? He expects me to believe that? And if this was genuine, he'd acknowledge it was insensitive of him.
More evidence that he's either incredibly obtuse, just flaky or simply dishonest with himself AND you, none of which is a quality you want in a partner.
Can you not see that this is causing you a LOT more emotional distress than necessary? For your own emotional and mental health, you need to separate yourself from this person.
TIME TO MOVE ON.
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