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Originally Posted by jessiewhit
I know about a dozen friends who have had luck on OLD, just give it more time. There's nothing wrong with being a homebody who wants slightly more human interactions. Being in a new city is also difficult, but you can turn it to your advantage and reinvent yourself. Good luck!
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Thanks. I already paid for 3 months of membership on match, but I decided to hide my profile and just have it unhidden for the ones I want to communicate with. I decided I'm going to have to be the one to message them if I don't want to put myself out there. There's a drawback to this of course, and that's HIM not being able to find me. The rejection online isn't as bad as IRL since they don't really know me anyway.
I'm waiting to hear (or not hear back) from two guys I have some hope for. At this point, there is probably no hope since it says they haven't logged in for over 3 weeks, which on match means months or even years.
In real life, it's back to the same old stuff. Looks here and there from the opposite sex, but none of which creates an opportunity for us to get to know each other. I'm lucky if I ever see them again and their staring just gives me a little ego boost, especially at my age, but then it quickly fades away. I want the real thing - only one man who makes me feel beautiful and loved. I don't blame these guys for not approaching me because I rarely get attracted to anyone right away either.
By some luck or fate, I'll meet him. I know he's out there. I loved the wrong guy for many years...imagine how much I can love the right guy.
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