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Deal-breaker. I know you mentioned no std's but it's the mentality of a man that can pick someone out for sex. It reveals little to no respect for women and I would question his disposable way of viewing women.
So if a man is single and he loves sex, that makes him a bad person? Picking someone out who you feel is physically attractive and paying her for her services is no different than paying a psych to help you work through your mental problems or going to a restaurant, ordering a steak dinner, and paying them for it. That doesn't mean that he's incapable of finding a good woman and loving her faithfully and tenderly.
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I would question if the person was only able to reduce the value of a woman to her breasts or behind. No go for me.
You forgot to mention the coochie. Again, I don't feel the two are mutually exclusive. I hope this thread serves as a reminder to men to keep their mouths shut and not to snitch on themselves if they find a good woman, she may not be able to handle the truth.
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In my experience (and personal observation), working girls/prostitutes (and I'm not talking about the street desperate drug types) are actually safer when it comes to sex than some promiscuous partners. Think about it..... prostitutes are operating a business. They run a business. It is their incentive to protect that business (and their health). Its not like they are getting it on "in the heat of the moment". Condom use also more hygienic and easier when having multiple partners on a daily basis.
Yes they do have lots of sexual partners but to assume that equates to being any less or more risk of STD when compared to other non-working-girls is misleading. That statistic is unknowable... as it heavily depends on the risk one is willing to make (working or not).
How many people here have mentioned unprotected sexual encounters "in the heat of the moment"... or when protection was not within easy reach here in this forum? That will never happen with some prostitutes... there is no such thing as "in the heat of the moment" it is a planned and agreed event.
Furthermore, condom use is not 100% effective against any and all STDs. Sure... but that stat is relates to everyone; few, or lots of partners not necessarily just prostitutes. Yes! there are some prostitutes that have a different tolerance for level of risk and will take risks depending on price. As do high risk prostitutes desperately on the street and addicted. I am not denying that. They do exist. As do normal/regular people who participate in high risk promiscuous sex....
Again.. risk of STDs is unknowable for any individual and you cannot assume high/lower risk due to relations with prostitutes.
"The STD rate among porn actors is significantly higher than among legal prostitutes in Nevada, said the report, because Nevada law requires that prostitutes wear condoms and be tested weekly for disease." (previous paragraph indicates limited condom use among actors during performance)
So to bring this back on topic...
If STD is a concern (and it should be), this discussion should be had with any partner regardless if they were with or worked as a prostitute or not. That leaves the emotional and character perception aspect to the question "If you would be willing to date a guy who has been with a prostitute?" That is a good question to ask yourself and certainly a valid one. As someone already pointed out, you will most likely not find out until after you've been invested in a relationship... as it is not information people volunteer to anyone but the closest of friends/partners.
I personally have been in relationship with women who worked as escorts/prostitutes. Even with those girlfriends, we never had sex without a condom... both of us were always prepared and never let the "heat of the moment" blur our judgement. It actually set a personal habit that I carried with me well after that relationship ended. So obviously I probably fall under the category of a guy who has been with a prostitute.
Well since condoms can (and do) break, if you're constantly having sex with strangers, technically you're putting yourself at a greater risk of catching an STD.
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Quite frankly, I'd just rather not know. Do I reallyneed to know?
True story.
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He wants you to know two things:
1) He's a freak'n stud banging all these women he payed money for (proud accomplishment if you will) LOL
It just doesn't feel right if I'm not paying for it. KIDDING! ....
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2) You better use a condom and get checked soon afterwards, because you don't know where he's been dipping his stick.
Don't be silly, rap that willy!
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When it comes right down to it, you don't know where ANYONE has been dipping, or been dipped....perhaps we should all assume the worst.
That's true. Through means by which I will not disclose, I found out that a former co-worker was a prostitute.
If someone used to see prostitutes - it sounds like more of a usual occurrence than a one time thing with a group of buddies or something. In that case - no. I wouldn't date him. It would mean that we view sex differently. I wouldn't hate him or shame him - I simply wouldn't have a relationship with him.
If someone used to see prostitutes - it sounds like more of a usual occurrence than a one time thing with a group of buddies or something. In that case - no. I wouldn't date him. It would mean that we view sex differently. I wouldn't hate him or shame him - I simply wouldn't have a relationship with him.
I think men and women inherently view sex differently, unless he's one of those new age metro-sexual millennial types who I unfortunately share a generation with....
I think men and women inherently view sex differently, unless he's one of those new age metro-sexual millennial types who I unfortunately share a generation with....
I don't see sex as an item to be purchased. I see it as something to be shared. I wouldn't be a good match with someone that frequented prostitutes.
I don't see sex as an item to be purchased. I see it as something to be shared. I wouldn't be a good match with someone that frequented prostitutes.
We're not talking about "frequenting". What if it only happened twenty or thirty times? It's not like he's been going to see prostitutes every week for the past several years.
Just because she's a prostitute doesn't mean the two of you can't share an experience together.
We're not talking about "frequenting". What if it only happened twenty or thirty times? It's not like he's been going to see prostitutes every week for the past several years.
Just because she's a prostitute doesn't mean the two of you can't share an experience together.
20 or 30 times is, indeed, frequenting.
You didn't share an experience. You bought it and she provided it.
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LOL 
Again, I don't feel the two are mutually exclusive. I hope this thread serves as a reminder to men to keep their mouths shut and not to snitch on themselves if they find a good woman, she may not be able to handle the truth.