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You are the same guy who has complained that gf almost never wants to spend the night at your house, right? I recognize your writing style. Why do you keep making new accounts to talk about this relationship?
Is it because every single time you ask us about this relationship we tell you it doesn't sound like it's working out?
You originally were throwing cold water on something she was excited about. So I can see her confusion about your excitement to go or commitment level.
Then, tons of poor communication happened.
Then, she was extremely rude and made plans with someone else, without confirming your intention or even telling you. I suspect this was on purpose, to get you back in a way.
I do not think anyone is "right" in this, but I would highly question continuing a relationship with someone who treated me as your gf just did.
Good weather is an important factor when going on a trip, especially at the beach. I think it's normal to be put off by finding out that the weather might not be good and express your concerns or lack of enthusiasm. Many people often reschedule if they have the possibility. Her lack of respect and making you feel like a fool isn't how a nice partner should treat the other one.
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Good weather is an important factor when going on a trip, especially at the beach. I think it's normal to be put off by finding out that the weather might not be good and express your concerns or lack of enthusiasm. Her lack of respect and making you feel like a fool isn't.
Sure, it is, but if a cute lady is planning on going anyway, and you're into said cute lady, are you really going to say "I'd like to go, but it might be rainy out, so I'll let you know later"... or are you going to be "that's sounds awesome, lets go, if the weather sucks out we'll do other fun stuff".
I would hope among non clueless dudes that answer B would be the default response.
You are the same guy who has complained that gf almost never wants to spend the night at your house, right? I recognize your writing style. Why do you keep making new accounts to talk about this relationship?
Is it because every single time you ask us about this relationship we tell you it doesn't sound like it's working out?
I believe you. This is the first post of his I've seen but it has that... smell about it. But taking it at face value, post #9, in my opinion, comes closest to nailing the issue.
I have never ever said I wont go or dont wish to go or I will let you know if i will go anything similar. NEVER!
I just said im not enthusiastic about it since the weather was bad and that I do not have a feeling. And that was it.
I have never ever said I wont go or dont wish to go or I will let you know if i will go anything similar. NEVER!
I just said im not enthusiastic about it since the weather was bad and that I do not have a feeling. And that was it.
You really sounded like a pill about the whole vacation thing, and she was excited. Is this the first time for that dynamic?
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