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Old 06-14-2015, 04:59 AM
 
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Hi yesterday me him ,and the school counselor met together. First the counselor met with me to tell me the change that next school year he only wants to be friendly ,not build a friendship up anymore I had a hard time adjusting to this ,I (basically) have autism but not totally. it took me about 2 hours to calm down. The counselor says he wants to meet together and tell me this. So we met and the counselor asked us where we wants to go with this ,Then he asked him before me and he says friendly I guess ,and then she asked me ,which I was scared to answered I friendly i guess too,i wanted to be friends but the words could not come out. Then the counselor explains what friendly is. So he told me what he wanted ,like i cannot walk to classes anymore ,or sit with him. so i was a very upset ,and the counselor help me express my feelings. Then after a while ,he had to tell me what he thinks of me and he says your cool ,a nice person and its fun getting to know you a little. i had a little smile on my face and then a while later he changed his mind ,he says i could sit with him mon ,and fri at school and still walk him to class. Then he put his arms out and we gave a hug. So then he left and the counselor talked to me and says i think he felt bad and it was nice of him to do that. Then later that day ,i was walking to the bus and he ran to me and we walked together. Btw we are both males. I am not sure i feel kind of guilty ,not sure what to do
Maybe he has a crush on me
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Old 06-14-2015, 05:12 AM
 
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Are you an autistic kid who thinks his male counselor at school has a crush on him? He does not, move along.
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Old 06-14-2015, 05:14 AM
 
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Hi no
i was talking about me and the student
and the counselor is a lady
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Old 06-14-2015, 05:36 AM
 
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Wait how many people are in on this? I thought you were talking about yourself?
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Old 06-14-2015, 06:24 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Sooooo.....I'm confused. Do you WANT a relationship with this guy? If you are gay, is it possible he is not, and didn't want you getting too worked up about him?
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Old 06-14-2015, 08:14 AM
 
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Hi
I just want to be friends with him
It was me and him
The counsellor help us with this
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Old 06-14-2015, 08:27 AM
 
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If 1) you have a crush on your male friend or 2) he has a crush on you, then either you have to get past your crush or he has to get past his crush before the two of you can be friends.
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Old 06-14-2015, 08:35 AM
 
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Hi I do not have a crush on him
Not sure if he does
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Old 06-14-2015, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Why is a school counselor nursing high school friendships? Were you.....stalking him, of sorts?
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Old 06-14-2015, 08:49 AM
 
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No i had problems with building friendships before ,i used to follow people around and used wrong words to express my feelings. i am not sure what happened with him before
she is just helping us out
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