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I just want to share my problem right now..Im a single mother and now I'm studying in college taking Business Management..3 years ago I gave birth to a very pretty baby..My parents didn't want me to get married because I'm just too young that time,..Even if it hurts me I followed them...because of financial problems my mother decided to work as housemaid in the nearby city...one of my aunt want to take good care of the baby,that time also I really wanted to continue my study..so I decided to let her take good care my baby...I went to the city and I applied for a scholarship to a university and luckily I was accepted...and now im striving hard for my studies, I'm studying at night and working at day....but you know what I really miss my baby.....some people told me that what if I cannot get back my baby...what if my baby doesn't know me anymore..it really hurts me so much if i hear something like that...most of the time I would ask myself....am I a irresponsible mother because I left my baby to someone else???did I made a right decision to left her and continue my dreams?? all I can say is what im doing right now is just for my baby...Can I still get back my baby???pls....help me....I need some advice.....thank you!!!
Why don't you visit your daughter? IMO, there's always a problem with having someone else raise your child but certain circumstances requires certain exceptions. I'm sure your daughter's in good care with your aunt. It's certainly better than putting your daughter up for adoption... but again, why not visit her? But as I ask this, I'm assuming you are still in state and relatively (within reason) close to your daughter since there are so many colleges...
Are you in regular contact with her? Do you send any support or gifts? I would be concerned about legal abandonment...you need to find out what constitutes "abandonment" in your state and make sure you are not there... Assuming your daughter is doing well with your aunt you may leave well enough alone for now, but in the future you could be closing a door.
ultimately what will determine your success as a parent will be your success as a person. you have chosen well.
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