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Old 06-23-2015, 09:50 AM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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I humbly take your advice.

In terms of connection though, I really think its important that we do things to strengthen our bond like when we were dating so that I want to have sex.
Of course, this is all like a dance. And the solution isnt going to be on one person alone. I merely suggested that guys are different, poke him and get his attention and don't be surprised that once you have his attention that he will want to get your attention more by wanting to talk and spend time with you more(what you want). Relationships fail because people quit trying.

As for the humble part, naw sistah all you gals are gorgeous naturally,like a vintage car is always valued. Gorgeous the way you are made naturally with your curves etc. But sometimes its good to polish and wax a vintage car and go for a spin once in awhile to attract more attention to the value of the vintage car. Aloha
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Old 06-23-2015, 10:06 AM
 
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Our relationship seemed perfect when we found out I was pregnant. We were always together and doing things with the kids. Things started changing within a few months and got progressively worse. I kept bringing up myissue about time spent together and around my fifth month he admitted that he could only be around my kids "in small doses". He also said that he didn't love me rather appreciated me.
He came out and told you he doesn't like being around his own kids, then he told you he doesn't like being around yours. You should have started taking birth control right then!

This man is not for you. Drop kick him to the curb.
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Old 08-05-2015, 11:26 AM
 
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Our sex life is virtually non existant.

We do have a child together though, and sometimes i really feel like that is the only reason he is here.

Bingo.

He is screwing around on you; that's why he doesn't put pix of you on social media and that's why he cropped out your image from the picture of you & your daughter.

Get out of there.

ETA: just saw this was from June. You should have taken our advice a long time ago. He's a creep.
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